Too big, or poorly designed?

Overall, this toy should be great. I could not get it to work, but some others have had great experiences with it. The toy material is great, the idea is great, but the execution is flawed.
Big, right curvature, hits the spot.
Too big, not enough of a difference between the bulges and the toy stem, difficult to keep in place.
Rating by reviewer:
extremely useful review
Let me start by saying that I really, really wanted to love this toy. After reading all of the reviews, and even one that talked about a prostate orgasm on insertion, I was sold. I am well versed in anal play, and have many toys, but I just could not figure this one out. I tried on a few different occasions, settings, moods, states of arousal, etc., but I just could not get this toy to do what it was supposed to do.

I was looking for something shaped just like this, so that I could insert it, sit back, let the vibrations go and have the prostate massaged. After repeatedly trying to insert this the very first time, I had to give up--I just could not get it in all of the way! It was not that the toy was too big, or too long, it just seemed that it was hitting something inside that was totally stopping it from going any further. After reading some of the other reviews on this site, someone suggested putting it in "backwards" and then it would stay in place. So, I tried that, and I did in fact get it in all of the way. It still would not stay put, however, because the size difference between the last ball and the elbow is not big enough, so with a normal amount of lube, the toy slides right out again. While it was in, backwards, I was able to turn it, but I would not recommend this, as it seems to me to be a little dangerous since my body did not want it when I tried to put it in the recommended way. Anyway, with the third bulge fully in, it felt great, but it pretty much immediately popped out again. So, I tried another suggestion: I put it all of the way in and then sat down on it. This actually felt great, and I got excited. After less than a minute, that last ball just popped out again! I just can not keep that last one in there! When that one comes out, all the others seem to follow. Frustrated, I decided to use it as just a prostate massager, but due to the high-grade silicone, it is actually sort of difficult to get a good grip on and maneuver.

This was my first silicone toy and I must say, the material is fantastic. I could definitely tell that this is well-made; soft, yet firm. I had no trouble inserting it, as the toy is pretty hard and inflexible. The vibrations didn't do a whole lot for me, but they don't in general. This seemed to be about as powerful as any other small bullet.

Unfortunately, I had to return this toy because I just don't think it offered any benefit over the other toys that I already have. I will keep looking for that perfect toy!
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  • Contributor: MidnightStorm
    Thanks for the review!
  • Contributor: no name 1
    was thinking about getting this
  • Contributor: *Camoprincess*
    Thanks for the review, sorry to hear this isn't what you expected
  • Contributor: Boyfriend
    thank you
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  • Contributor: smasmasma
    thanks for the review!
  • Contributor: panties4ever
    Let me say the review is correct. I purchased this toy a couple of months ago. If you want this toy to stay in place while walking, it won't work. The angle of it is designed wrong for practical purposes. Yes...I was able to insert and keep it in place while setting or rocking. I love anal play! However, your much better off with one that is designed better. The balls and size are great. this toy also needs more space between the last ball and where it curves as it really does have a tendency to "slip-out."
  • Contributor: iabicpl09
    Thank you
  • Contributor: roskat
    Thank you.
  • Contributor: spiced
    Thanks for the heads-up on this one. Is it really designed to be inserted all the way??
  • Contributor: panties4ever
    Thank you for asking. I'm still learning and not an expert. You'll spend more time "adjusting" this toy and gobs of lube to truely enjoy this toy comfortably. To me, its not worth the money spent. Yes, its large and fulfilling and wonderful for that part all the way inserted. But honestly, its not designed to stay in place unless you sit or rock on it. For someone like me, who enjoys making love and rolling around in the bed sheets or wherever... with or without your partner, you or someone else will have to keep their hands on it as it truely always wants to "slip-out." Although the cheeky boy is smaller, it may (not really sure) be a much better toy than the big boy to stay continuously in place. However, I feel the biggest problem too, with that toy by looking at the picture, is the space between the first ball and the vibrator. Comments on the cheeky boy as far as "staying in place," sound better and almost as fulfilling. I have a normal ass like everyone else or whatever. Why spend minutes adjusting a toy to be pleasurable because its not designed correctly? If your asking me, Takes all the fun out of it. The design is a great idea. Also too, Maybe the last bulb needs to be redesigned at the end like the "naughty boy or butt-boy." Overall, most comments both pro and con sound true for the "big-boy." Me...I like to spend my money on toys that successfully work and not "gadgets."
  • Contributor: Sempifi99
    Thanks for the review!
  • Contributor: DTV88
    good review
  • Contributor: srexom
    thanks for your review.
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