I am a small individual and I figured the small would be a good fit. It fits really well around the butt but the elastic bits are quite tight, especially around the legs. I would advise to make sure you find the right size. Perhaps you might have to look into getting a size up. I got the small and my waist is approximately 30 inches. The waist is tight but the legs are even tighter. I have had to make some slits in the elastic around my legs so that it can be even somewhat comfortable. Even now it is still very tight. And my thighs are not that big.

Some of the straps are coming off and I don't use it very much. It is not particularly durable. I do wash it every time I use it. The straps are a little complicated and I have some difficulty working with it. It has gotten to the point where I am a little worried that it is going to break soon. Some of the the straps are hanging on by just a few threads. I will admit that this is mostly because of my washing it in the washing machine so often.

One of my difficulties is that the snaps come un-snapped while I am using it. We have to stop every so often so as to snap the straps back on so that it doesn't fall out. This can be quite distracting from play.

I would advise this for a good first harness especially for those just wanting to try it. It can be quite comfortable and it does work as a basic harness. It gives you a good idea for learning about what can be done with strap-ons. For experienced people, I would advise finding a more durable one and a more secure one. I will be looking into getting a new one soon and I hope to find a somewhat better one. I am glad I got this one for my first one because it is inexpensive but I am looking to move up in scale for my next one.

We had to make incisions to make it fit. It still snaps open and has to be constantly adjusted. Overall, it is not ideal.