This is a good harness and dildo set for those just starting to try harnesses out. While it is adjustable, the straps will loosen after prolonged use and overall is not very firm, so you have very minimal amount of control over it.

Keep in mind women, that the middle strap that goes between your legs will rub your clit if you are not wearing underwear. This can be a fun experience the first few times, however, make sure you clean the harness! If you don't clean it regularly it can begin to collect and cultivate your body's fluids and reintroduce them as harmful bacteria that can cause (low level, but irritating) infections. It can however be nice if you wear a butt plug, that way the center strap is offset and rubs against that instead of directly on your clit.

Despite avid cleaning, the purple dong did discolor after a while and began to lose it's "errectness". And while it never tore, the discoloration in the plastic became so unattractive it needed to be thrown away (again, this wasn't due to the lack of cleaning, but rather the quality of material used).

Still, I recommend this those those of you who are just testing out the way of the strap-on. If you are not completely sold on the idea, this is a good way to test it out without too much investment. If however you are serious about getting a harness and dildo - I suggest you buy them individually and not from a set - pick out exactly what you want so that both the harness and dildo fit right for your needs. As, even though this is clearly a set designed for beginners just starting out, the dong is much too big (in both length and girth) to be used on any true beginner.