I would recommend this harness for any couple that is just starting out in strap-on play. It's not so expensive that if it turns out it's not for you that you are out a bundle, but it's not cheap or flimsy. The harness fits nicely (I am a plus-sized gal), and the O-ring system holds the included dildo firmly. Also, it comes with extra O-rings, so that you can get other sized dildos depending on your desires. It is super simple to set up, and put on. If you are super vigorous with it, the straps may chaff a bit. For me, with regular use, there is really no problem with chaffing. Personally purple is my power color, and I really enjoy the way it looks when I am wearing it. I have gotten a few different dildos to use with it now, for variety, and all have fit well and worked fine with this system. The only thing I would say to improve it would be to add some padding on the back where the base of the dildo sits. I often find myself stuffing a bandana in there to help pad the area and to make the dildo stand out at a better angle.

The harness itself it made of neoprene, with nylon straps, which are adjusted with metal D-rings. The harness it self it pretty comfortable, but if you tighten it up enough for really super vigorous fun, it might chaff a bit. Straps fit a waist up to about 44inches. The straps are a pretty purple color with a black neoprene panel at the front.

Now here is the down side, yes, the included dildo is made of jelly. It's not the end of the world, but there are those who are not fans of jelly. The upside is, you can keep the harness itself, and purchase a dildo made of what ever materials you like.

I feel in general this is a well-made strap-on set. That being said, this is my first strap on set, so take that as you will. It fits well, is comfortable and does what we want it to do. I enjoy wearing it, and actually find that I appreciate the visual aspect of it while I am, not something I expected when I first purchased it. I have used the enclosed O-rings with another dildo (also purple, but of a different material) and it worked perfectly. The D-rings make it easy to adjust the straps as needed. I recommend putting some material between your body and the back of the harness, just to get that right angle and to pad it a bit.

When I first purchased this, I was concerned if it would fit me. I am in the middle range of plus sized, but often things that say they fit up to XX turn out to be too tight. I was pleased that I had no problem getting this on, and at no point was it too tight or binding.

Okay, so here is the ‘nitty gritty’, if you don't read anything else read this part. This harness worked very well for us. We are beginners at strap-on play, and were nervous with our first purchase. I am very pleased at how easy it was to use, and how well it worked for our situation. At no point did we have to pause our play to fiddle with it, it was very much set and forget it. Once I got the angle situated, with the addition of a bandana behind the harness, it was all smiles. It was comfortable to wear, easy to adjust, goes on like a pair of strappy panties and held up through our play. I could imagine if you were more advanced or vigorous, it might not work as well for you, but for this beginner couple, it was just right.