Dual layer indulger 8.5" - silicone realistic dildo with balls and suction cup by EdenFantasys - review by CuriousFun

I originally bought this because I loved the smaller version of this dildo (the Dual Density Silicone Dildo), and every so often wished that I had something in the same material that was a little bigger. However, this big boy is a good deal larger than his little brother, and initially, I would have preferred something in a more in-between size....but this was the next-largest dual-density silicone option available that was in stock. I was worried that it might be too large for me, but I figured that the squishy nature of the material might be a little more forgiving than a firmer dildo, so I went for it. Even still, it sat in my toybox for several weeks after I bought it, unused and unloved because I was convinced that I didn't really need a dildo this large, and even though it's nearly identical in size to a vibrator I have (the Sensualist X), I still found the size rather intimidating. But then one day I was using his little brother, and I thought, "Hrm, I wish this was a little more filling," and I finally brought out his big brother to play. And oh my, I'm so very glad I did.

This is a fabulous dildo that gets me off in a way that none of my other unpowered toys do. The material, shape, and yes, even the size feel absolutely amazing, and this has now become my go-to dildo. He feels awesome with a clit vibe. The combination of this dildo paired with my Fondler or Vita (clitoral vibrators) can get me off in mere seconds. I can even get myself off with this dildo without a clit vibe by just rubbing my clit with my fingers while I thrust this bad boy in my pussy, which is something I've been unable to do with any of my other unpowered dildos. He just feels so damn good. He doesn't have any sort of curve, and he's very flexible, so he's not the best toy for applying firm and steady G-spot pressure (if that's what you're looking for, go for something with a curve and made from much firmer material), but his girth and pronounced coronal ridge do stimulate my G-spot wonderfully as I thrust him in and out of my vagina (though your results may vary depending on your anatomy and level of sensitivity).

He also boasts an extremely strong suction cup that holds tight to virtually every surface I've tried to stick him to. He'll even attach securely to the lightly-textured walls in my condo. Because he's so flexible (and long and somewhat heavy), he does tend to droop a little when attached to a surface, but I haven't found it to be a problem. You just have to steady him a bit with your hand during initial insertion. He's also harness-compatible and can be secured in an O-ring harness by either the suction cup, or sliding him through and using his balls to hold him in the O-ring. I don't currently have a harness to test out this feature, but I feel like he'd probably be more secure (and droop less) if you used his balls rather than his suction cup to anchor him to the O-ring (but that's honestly just a theory at this point). The suction cup and balls also make him perfectly safe for anal use, though he's much too large for my delicate bottom at this point in my anal experimentation. Still, for those who enjoy using large dildos anally, I think he'd probably feel great for butt play.

Since he's a large realistic-looking dildo, he's not at all discreet, and you should only travel with him if you're not easily embarrassed. Since he has no mechanical parts and is made of silicone, he's totally safe to use in any sort of watery environment, and the only noise you'll have to worry about while using him are the sounds coming out of your own mouth. ;)

This dildo is made from dual-density silicone, which means that it has a soft, squishy outer layer over a firmer (but still very flexible) silicone core. This makes it feel remarkably lifelike. The squishy outer layer is wonderfully soft and silky to the touch, almost like human skin, and he has some very realistic-looking veins and detailing and a prominent coronal ridge. I can feel the veins faintly, and I can feel the coronal ridge very strongly, which provides wonderful G-spot stimulation while thrusting him vaginally. Silicone also warms to your body temperature quite quickly, which adds to the realistic feel of the toy. If you'd like, you can even pre-warm him by running him under hot water for a few minutes to make the experience feel even more realistic.

Silicone is one of the safest sex toy materials on the market, and scores a 10/10 on Eden's safety scale. It is non-porous, hypoallergenic, and free from latex and phthalates. It has no ordor. The only thing to be aware of with silicone is that it doesn't tend to play well with other types of silicone, so you'll want to stick to using only water-based lube with this bad boy. Avoid silicone and oil-based lubes. If you're unsure about a particular lubricant, you can apply a very small amount of the lube in question to an inconspicuous part of the toy (like the side of the balls or the base near the suction cup) and wait a few minutes to see if there's any adverse reaction. If the lubed area becomes at all sticky or gooey, you'll know that you can't pair that lube with this dildo, and you should immediately wash off the lube with hot soap and water.

The only thing I don't love about this material is that it's an INCREDIBLE lint and hair magnet. It seems to attract far more crap than my firmer silicone toys. However, I usually just wipe it down with a wet wipe immediately before use, which takes care of anything that's managed to stick to it.

The design, size, and shape of this toy are absolutely wonderful. He measures roughly 7 inches in insertable length, with a 5-inch circumference at his widest point, which is a sort of bulge just below the head. He has very realistic detailing, complete with veins (which are realistic and not exaggerated or ridiculous-looking at all), wrinkles, and coronal ridge. His balls aren't especially realistic-looking, but they're squishy and fun to squeeze, and they make a great handle while thrusting him manually, so at least they're functional. He's sort of a pinky-beige color, which doesn't perfectly replicate a real penis, but it's close enough.

I think my favorite aspect of his design is that bulge right below the head. It provides incredible stimulation while thrusting. I'm honestly not even 100% sure which part of my vaginal anatomy it's stimulating, but it feels incredible. His little brother has the same bulge, but I didn't feel it in the same way with the smaller size. I also feel the veins and coronal ridge more strongly on the larger version. I think his size is perfect. He's big enough to feel filling and satisfying, but not large to the point of being the least bit painful or uncomfortable. I can take him comfortably vaginally without any sort of warm-up with a smaller toy so long as I'm nice and wet and aroused (and I also use a little water-based lube from a bottle to ease insertion). I have a rather short vagina, so I can't take his entire length, but because the head is so soft and squishy, I never have to worry about bruising or bumping my cervix uncomfortably, even during vigorous thrusting. The material is very soft and forgiving, which I love.

I don't know that I'd recommend this to an absolute beginner, but I feel like most people who have had at least a little experience with penetration should be able to take this toy comfortably vaginally (just don't skimp on the lube). I would say that it's more intermediate to advanced for anal play, however.

With his little brother and a standard Bic lighter for scale:


Top view (note the slight bulge below the head):


Underside view:


Attached to my wall:

This toy performs beautifully. The suction cup holds fast to virtually any surface (so long as it's not TOO textured) and supports the weight of the dildo extremely well. As I said, it does droop a bit when attached to both vertical and horizontal surfaces, but that's easily remedied by steadying him with your hand a bit while you first insert him. I didn't have any issues with the flexibility of the toy while thrusting it by hand or using the suction cup, although I could potentially see the flexibility causing some minor issues while trying to use it in a harness. It's nothing that an intermediate or advanced harness-user shouldn't be able to handle, but those new to using a harness might want to start out with something that's slightly less floppy. As I said earlier, I don't have a harness (or anyone with whom to use a harness) at the moment, so I can't say for sure how he functions in a harness, but I feel like anchoring him in the O-ring in front of the balls, rather than by the suction cup, might help with the drooping/flexibility issue at least a little.

As this toy is 100% silicone, he's very easy to clean and care for. He can be cleaned with a toy cleaner or mild soap and water (I use toy cleaner). Since he's silicone and contains no mechanical parts, he can be boiled or run through the dishwasher on the top rack (without detergent) if you need to sterilize him. You also have the option of sterilizing him with a 5-10% bleach solution or wiping him down with rubbing alcohol (just make sure to rinse thoroughly).

Only use water-based lube with silicone toys. Also, it's best to avoid letting silicone toys come into prolonged contact with other sex toys of various materials (silicone, TPR, jelly, PVC, skin-like materials, etc.) as the materials can sometimes cause strange chemical reactions when they come into contact with each other (melting, fusing, staining, etc.). I store most of my silicone toys in plastic ziplock baggies, which keeps them clean, free from lint and hair, and separated from their sex toy breathe in my toy box. Any sort of plastic or lint-free fabric should work fine to keep your silicone toy clean and safe.

This toy arrived in a simple plastic bag inside Eden's usual nondescript brown shipping box. It didn't come with any instructions, but it's pretty self-explanatory.

I didn't think I really needed or wanted a dildo this large, but I was oh so very wrong. This is now my very favorite unpowered toy, and I use it multiple times a week. It feels so incredibly good, I just can't get enough of it.