Jessica Drake's metallic harness - harness and dildo set discontinued by Cal Exotics - review by brandonbadassm

This toy worked out just the way I thought it would. The look is not scary at all; Some strap-on dildos can be very intimidating because of the size. This was the perfect size, it was not too big or to thick, to me it was about the size of an average penis. The dildo made out of very nice latex, it is not too soft and it is not too hard. It moves with you for comfortable insertion. The dildo has raised veins on it for extra feel. The veins felt great. After she used it on me, I used it on her. She said the veins were amazing and you could feel everything. There is only a little curve on the dildo kind of like an erected penis. The harness made out of Vinyl; there is no itching or chaffing. There is also a little vibrator pocket right under the hole for the dildo. It is big enough to fit a little bullet so the person using it can get some vibrations on the clit. The color is pretty and can make any women look and feel sexy in it.

The straps are a little difficult to use for the first time. I had to help my partner put it on so it fit her comfortably. However, after that she could easy pull it to tighten it a little and to loosen it up to take it off. This is a great strap-on for beginners and anyone can use it. I recommend it to all. This is all around my favorite toy.

The dildo made out of latex; it is kind of like one of those stress balls. You can squeeze it but it is still firm. Latex takes some extra care since it is VERY porous and can also degrade easily in direct sunlight. It's a fairly delicate composition and needs to be covered if you switch orifices every time. It is easy to insert because it is not solid hard and can be angled up a little bit for help. The harness is made of vinyl, very comfortable. This also means that no animals were harmed, which is also attractive. Another benefit of being made out of vinyl is that the harness is completely waterproof and therefore will not deteriorate after long shower sessions. It is nice and smooth and a little slippery if a lot of lube gets on it. If you have lube on your hand, it is very hard to tighten or loosen the straps. The straps slip right out of your hand. There is no smell to it, so that is a good thing. We have one toy that smells like a gummy bear and it stunk up everything it was near.

The waist strap features a buckle on either side, while the two leg straps are fastened with D-rings. The buckles allow for fast adjustment or removal, and I have not noticed the D-rings slipping at all so far. MY partner is not a huge fan of the straps because there a little difficult to loosen it up. At least it does not slip or loosen up on its own. The maximum dildo size that will fit in this harness is 1 3/4 inch diameter, so keep that in mind while shopping. The hole is open on the back, so it is possible to use a double-ended dildo with this harness. I am not sure if it can hold many toys because of the fact the dildo snaps on. However, I myself would not want a new dildo for it I think it is perfect.

The harness can fit a wide variety of women. The maximum waist size is 39” so it leaves a lot of room. Adjusting the straps is a little difficult, so what I recommend is loosing it up before you put it on and have a partner help tighten it. Then when you are finished using it have your partner help loosen it up. Getting it loose is the tricky part. The waist strap sits right below the pubic bone. What the manufacturers say about the harness sitting a bit lower on the pubic bone and providing some very nice stimulation for the wearer is true. My partner told me that when she was thrusting she could feel the strap between her legs rub against her clit. She said it felt good but she wished we had a bullet to place inside the little pocket. I myself did not wear it. I simply unsnapped the dildo from the harness and used it on my partner.

This toy worked great for both partner and me. It was comfortable on her and for inside of me. The harness was challenging at first but we quickly got the hang of it. I had to help her take it off because her hands covered in lube made it hard for her to get a good grip. The dildo snapped into place, and my partner could not feel those snaps so it was fun for her to really go at it. It stayed right in place and did not snap loose. Once the toy was in it was in. There was no accidental slipping. The only way to get the toy out was to take it out. It is the same for when I used it in her vagina. Make sure though when you switch from anal to vagina you use a condom. With latex you can transmit diseases. I put it in and just laughed because it was not falling out. She used this in doggy style and in missionary position. It worked great for both. I really enjoyed missionary because I was able to look at her and jerk off at the same time. This is a wonderful strap-on and I recommend it to all.

Both the harness and the dildo are waterproof. Latex products are injection molded so they don't clean well. You can make a latex toy last longer and keep it cleaner by using a condom over it each use. Cleaning should be done with mild soap and water and never use alcohol or household cleaners, then dry it of with a towel because the material does not collect everything it touches. Easy to store since you can unsnap the dildo and fold up the harness. Great for hiding it in a box, or a dresser, any place really.