Lover's super strap harness and silicone thruster - harness and dildo set discontinued by Cal Exotics - review by Midway through

This harness is great for pegging and for vaginal penetration (gender play for girls!). The harness has an o-ring that is 2 inches in diameter, and will fit a variety of dildos. However, if it doesn't fit the one you have in mind, you can change the o-ring out, as there are snaps that hold the o-ring in place! This harness fits amazing, you don't get the floppy penis complex that some harnesses can give you. It really felt like I had an erect penis of my own. I'll admit-I walked around the house in it for a while swinging my hips to watch my fake penis swish around. It was amazing! The straps are super comfy, and will fit plus size. I'm a size 14, and there was tons of extra space on the straps, really- too much. I'll probably cut them and burn the ends to seal the stitching. You can change dildos mid use in this if you want to, but make sure before hand that they will fit the o-ring attachment. You'll have to loosen the straps slightly around the hips to pull the one dildo out and change it. The dildo on this is fantastic for both vaginal and anal sex. Although with anal sex, you'll want to go slow and work your way up to it unless youre used to it-USE LOTS OF LUBE. It does have the base that will stop it from getting "lost" as many people worry about. I used the dildo out of the harness for vaginal penetration.. AMAZING. It hit my g-spot and I had a mind blowing orgasm. The shape of the dildo hit it, even though it's not majorly curved. The rivlets running through it don't provide enough texture for me to notice during vaginal penetration, it just feels smooth and firm, but I loved it.

The dildo that comes with the harness is made of TPR silicone. It has no taste, though it has a strong rubber smell when it first comes out of the package. After washing it I've noticed that the smell has subsided for the most part. The dildo is smooth and has some rivets through it for a bit of texture, and is very firm. It's about 2 inches wide and has 6 and a half inches of insertable length. While this dildo is firm, it will still give, if you push it-it is soft, and it bends a bit. I found that it was extremely comfortable inserted, though you should always use quite a bit of lubrication to ease the process.

The harness is a mixture of mostly nylon and the entire set is waterproof (though you may want to hang it up to dry as the front part has a cotton padding where the dildo sits against you that may take a bit to dry).

This harness is crafted extremely well in my opinion. You can change the o-ring with four snap enclosures that hold it in place. The o-ring it comes with fits up to 2 inches in diameter, and the harness itself fits snuggly against the body when adjusted properly. You'll want to play around with adjusting it to get it to fit where you won't have a case of floppy penis. When adjusted properly it stands at the angle of a regular penis, erect! The straps are highly adjustable and give lots of room so that they can fit up to plus size well. It says it fits up to 64 inches. It fits a variety of toys that are up to 2 inches in diameter, and whatever won't fit it-you can change the o-ring to make it fit. The o-ring is metal, and the harness is g-string style. The straps that go around the crotch area weren't scratchy or uncomfortable to me, however after long term usage (say, 3+ hours) they might begin to chafe the skin. You can have someone have sex with you while you're wearing this harness, but not from the front unless you loosen the straps and move the front padding out of the way. From the back you can bend over and move the straps to the side and you can get banged with this on, woo! ;)

This harness fit me extremely well, and I am a size 14. The straps had a lot of excess, which is why I'm probably going to cut them down and burn the ends of them to keep them from unraveling. It will fit almost any size, and as I have mentioned before, the harness itself mentions it can fit up to 64 inches comfortably, which I will agree with. So you won't have to worry about it being a tight fit. Make sure you play around with the leg straps, because if you don't they can lay in an uncomfortable way and chafe the legs. Once I got it all fiddled with and the kinks out, it was super comfortable. I walked around the house in it for a while with no problems.

This was easy to take on and off, just loosen the straps on the hips and it slid right off of me. I used it for pegging and it was fabulous. The harness fits rather snug with the dildo that is included, and I will admit I had to wiggle it quite a bit to get it out of the o-ring. It is entirely waterproof and can be taken in the shower. Though if you do that, I don't suggest using water based lubricant because it will wash off too easily. The dildo is TPR silicone so be sure to use a lubricant that is safe with silicone. If you're unsure, test a small area that is unnoticeable. I ran out of silicone lubricant and generally only keep water based around, so I haven't been able to test the theory.

The harness essentially folds up for storage and requires minimal space. The dildo itself however may need a bit more space for storage. The dildo is, as mentioned before, made of silicone. Therefore, you can wash it with soap and water and it's safe. (You can tell I'm an avid fan of soap and water, I wash most my toys in it. However, I recommend using anti-bacterial soap, though most soaps are these days..). Always wash immediately after to use to keep your toys staying like new and safe. The harness is machine washable, I wash it on cold normal cycle, and I hang it up to dry, rather than putting it through the drier. The dildo on this one is fantastic because it is TPR silicone and it doesn't have a sticky texture to it (some will and will stick to everything, including fuzz. ew.) This doesn't hold lint, or cat or dog fur, I know from experience. 3 dogs and a cat later, and it still doesn't have fuzzies. Yay!

The harness and dildo set comes in a box, that has a half naked girl on the front wearing it. It is definitely not discreet at all. Although, EF always ships in an unmarked box that says merchants, so no one will know where you got or what you got if you order it, just keep in mind not to open the actual box until you're around people you don't care if they see. It is pretty obvious what it is. There were no instructions, but really there's none needed. You put the dildo in the harness ring, and slide the harness on. Use the buckles on the legs and waist part to adjust it to fit you, and voila! You have your own fake penis!

As I mentioned earlier, I was thrilled about this one. This is my first strap-on ever. I was afraid of how it would fit, and I've read about the floppy penis syndrome that you can get from a harness not having proper fitting straps or from the front just not holding the dildo well-but this one turned out great. I walked around the house for at least an hour waving it around and admiring myself in the mirror. I kept touching it and trying to masturbate it just to see what it would feel like. It's always been a huge fantasy of mine to have a fake penis. It doesn't hurt that this one is pretty either ;)