Lover's super strap harness and silicone thruster - harness and dildo set discontinued by Cal Exotics - review by Icecrystals12

I think this harness works amazingly for beginners. Not too hard to figure out if you've ever worked with adjustable straps before in your life. The harness is easy to put on, and isn't too terribly uncomfortable unless tightened too much. The dildo is also easily used on its own and can be replaced without much hassle. While the dildo is waterproof, I wouldn't soak the harness in water. It made the fabric quite a bit less comfortable.

The material on the harness is a soft, felt-like fabric and the straps are a bit rougher and not soft at all. The silicone dildo is really smooth and firm to the touch. It has a nice thickness and holds up well on its own. The added texture and differences in girth are really nice to experience.

The overall design of the harness is extremely well thought out. The harness straps are easily adjustable and don't get in the way of insertion for the wearer. The top strap lays comfortably around the waist while the two bottom straps wrap around the legs, just under the butt. You can snap and unsnap an O-ring to the harness, allowing for a wide variety of toys to be attached to it. In addition to allowing the O-ring to snap off, it allows an easier way to replace whichever toy you choose into the O-ring. It comes with a 2-inch O-ring to start. The toy is curved upwards to allow easy accessibility to the G-spot.

The size fit nicely for me and my partner both. I wear size XL and my partner wears size Medium clothing, so it was nice to have something we could both wear and use together. The straps sat comfortably where they should, and it didn't acquire too much adjusting during any of the sessions we used it. Due to the easily adjustable straps and the amount of strap they provide, the harness would definitely be a good fit for an extremely wide range of users. As a side note, the harness would be able to be worn under clothing easily, I just don't know how well many people would be able to wear the harness and toy together under clothing. My partner succeeded in this but that is because they are a theater person and know how to make things work in regards to appearance.

The harness was extremely comfortable to use and adjust. Although I am personally a little klutzy and uncoordinated, I could put on and take off the harness without much trouble at all. The toys were extremely easy to secure and use. We never had a single issue with the toy or harness coming undone or being too loose. The harness also did well in many different types of positions, many upright, many not. Overall, it was a nice fit to wear and comfortable to use, even if the straps were a little uncomfortable after long periods of time.