Objects In Box Are Bigger Than They Appear

The Fetish Fantasy Vibrating 7" Dildo is really a jack of all trades. It's a dildo, but also a vibrator. It's harness compatible and suction ready. It curved for G or P spot pleasure. As if all that weren't enough, the dildo/vibrator comes as more of a kit, complete with silicone mask, toy cleaner, and water based lubricant.

The Elite Dildo can be used vaginally or anally due to the flared based. Its vibrations mean it could also be used to stimulate external areas.

This dildo is perfect for any type of use. It can be used solo or with a partner. The harness capability brings with a host of partner play opportunity on top of what a regular vibrator can provide. The packaging says the remote is waterproof (though I'm not so sure), so it could technically go from bathroom to bedroom.

The Elite (as I'm thus referring to it, even though that's really the name of the line and not the toy itself) is made of silicone. Silicone rates a ten on the safety scale. It is non-porous in nature.

The silicone has enough of a drag to create resistance when you try to glide your fingers across it. It's not enough drag to take away from the soft feel of the material. While the finger will hop along the material a good bit, it still manages to feel almost silky. You will need a bit of lube with the drag, but once applied it does not seem to drink the lube up and need constant reapplication.

There is a seam that runs along the body of the vibrator. It can be felt with the hands but not during use. It may be an issue for those that are seam sensitive.

Other than the seaming, the body is smooth. There is no texture to the material in the form of bumps or ridges. Texture lovers may not be thrilled, but those that prefer a smooth surface should be pleased with the Elite.

There is a medium amount of silicone odor to the Elite. It is only noticeable if brought to the nose. There is no taste to it.

The silicone is not too draggy and really quite nice. I wasn't sure what to expect with the Fetish Fantasy silicone. While it's not luxury silicone at its finest, it's certainly nothing to stick your nose up at. It's clearly a higher quality silicone than many brands use.

My only complaint with the silicone is that it attracts lint, hair, and anything else that it touches like mad. In some of the pictures you'll see particles on it and all the pictures were taken within fifteen minutes of opening the box. While writing this, the toy has collected lint particles from my black pants all over it in a matter of seconds. You'll need to wash this one before and after use.

Okay, so let me just say that when I got this my jaw nearly hit the ground. The product page lists this toy as being 1.5" in diameter which I always take to mean "diameter at the widest point" since that's what it usually works out to be. Not the case!! This toy is really girthy. Let's go over some measurements.

The length as per the product page and my measurements is 7.25". It's called the 7" dildo, I guess because the 7.25" dildo didn't roll off the tongue as nicely. The head is 1.75" in diameter. It then comes down to the listed 1.5" in diameter. It continues to get bigger as you get to the base, widening out to a maximum diameter of 2". While I forgot to include it in my diagram, the base is 2.75" wide.

So the diameter at the widest is .5" wider than the product page lists. At the head it's .25" wider than the product page lists. That's the difference at the head between "kinda beginner friendly" and "not so beginner friendly." At the base it's the difference between "kinda beginner friendly" and "advanced users only."

Here's the diagram chart:



To put it in perspective, here it is in my hand:



The size of this was a shock, to say the least. When you're expecting the base to be 1.5" and thus the inner curve to be more like 1" or 1.25" and instead the inside is 1.5", you kinda take a step back. I'll just say it's a good thing I'd been busy working on my Hottie Xtra before I took this on as an assignment or I'd have never gotten this thing in! Before the Xtra journey, my max was 1.5" in diameter, so this would have far exceeded that.

Now, here are my thoughts on the 1.75" (which ends up being the size that you mostly feel) size. My general preference is still for smaller to average sized toys in the 1"-1.5" range. However, on my "larger toy" days, I'll use 2"-2.25" toys. So 1.75" is an awkward size for me. It's too small on a "big" day and too big on a "small" day. It serves as a good warm up for bigger toys, but that's about the extent of the 1.75" size for me. Every now and then I'll find my head is in a "big" mood and my body is not and then the 1.75" works out nicely.

Now, you can work this out to be 2", but then you're inserting most of it. My G spot is about 1.5" or maybe 2" in at a max, so if I insert this all the way I lose the design features. So that brings me back to the size of this just being kind of awkward for me.

As to who the size will work for, I would say a more advanced user. It starts right out at the 1.75", it does not graduate to that size. If you're used to smaller toys, this is a bigger jump than you may think. If you're looking for something super filling, however, it's not exactly that either. Just make sure you can handle the size of this before you make the purchase.

Let's take a moment to look at the shape on the Elite. It curves in a good bit, allowing for G or P spot stimulation. It's one of the more intense curves I have in a vibrator, coming upward a good bit.



Underneath the head feels like it has a hollow spot. This means it is somewhat bendable at the head. I have to put some weight behind it to bend it, but I can get it to bend. If you need a totally rigid toy, it may not work for your G/P spot.



If you're like me and need an intense curve, this one is actually pretty nice. It has almost a U shape in the middle where it curves upward. It hooks into the body somewhat when it is used and creates a ton of pressure. In fact, between the size and amount of pressure it creates, the sensation may be overkill to some.

Here's a fun fact I learned. My G spot is even more picky than I originally thought. The curve on this is near perfect. I can hit my G spot without fail with the Elite. I can get an insane amount of pressure on it and never lose contact. So G spot orgasm, right? Not so much. Apparently, my G spot also wants the smaller head, not the larger head. Can you hear my frustrated sigh through your computer?

If you need pinpoint precision, this doesn't do it. It's broad stimulation due to the size of the head. You'll get the pressure and the curve. What you won't get is a precise application of that pressure and curve. Depending on what you need, this could work for you or not.

While not a realistic toy, it's certainly not a discreet one. It looks very much like a sex toy and shouldn't be left out if you don't want people knowing what you're doing. It's not so large that you couldn't travel with it, but it's not the smallest thing either. Make sure you remove the batteries before traveling.

There is a wire that runs from the "dildo" portion to a remote which then controls the vibrating aspect of the toy.



The remote is separates into four parts of which two are actual buttons. The top button is the power button (on/off) and the bottom button controls the functions. There are lights in the middle to tell you which level of power or pattern you are on. The buttons are really nice to press. That sounds silly, but they really are a pleasure to use! They make a nice "click" noise when you press them, not too loud but loud enough where you know you've done something. They make me happy for some reason. They aren't attached to the toy itself, so you won't be hitting them during use. The control has a clip on attachment that allows you to hook it on to clothing or a harness to make it hands free.



To turn on, press the on/off button. To change the power level, press the squiggle button. To continue to scroll through the features, press the squiggle line again. There is no way to go back once you go forward. To turn off, press the on/off button again.

There are three constant vibration speed levels. The lowest is a low three vrooms. The next is a mid three vrooms. The final power is a low four vrooms. There's not a lot of range in the powers. It goes from moderate to moderately high. It never gets very low or very high. It's more powerful than average, but not super powerful. It won't blow your mind, but it will certainly get the job done.

The vibrations are pretty rumbly. When held in my hand, I can feel the vibrations almost down to my elbow. They are not surface level and penetrate deeply into the skin. They do not cause numbing or itching. You can hear the slightest high pitch whine of a buzzy undercurrent to them and feel a little bit of a buzz, making them not fully rumbly. So they aren't the most rumbly thing ever, but they're pretty solid vibrations and should please most users.

The vibrations are located in the head, not to be mistaken for "at the tip." While they can be felt at the tip, they are strongest just a few centimeters down from the tip. They radiate down through the shaft, but can be felt less as you go down.

The first pattern is a moderate pulse. The next is an escalation - from the low to high speed in a sort of pulse form. The next is an elongated pulse (Vrroooomm...Vrrrooomm). The last is a 1-2-3-4-1-2-3-4 pulse.

I'll always say "it could be stronger," but nevertheless the vibrations are pretty decent on this. They didn't blow my mind or anything, but were good enough to work. I prefer stronger vibrations, but if the shape is nice enough internally I can make it work. This one was workable and the vibrations were pretty good.

The noise level almost exactly replicates my cell phone on vibrate. It can mostly be muffled through the covers and cannot be heard through a closed door.

The remote is supposed to be waterproof, but I'm not exactly sure why or how. There's the clip, but I don't think that counts as waterproofing. The back is a snap close and I just don't really trust it to keep water out. As such, I sort of declined to dunk the remote in water for this review. You can if you'd like. I'd say if anything I would count the remote as perhaps more splash proof than waterproof. I probably wouldn't bring it in the tub. I have drenched the toy itself in water with no issues along with the wiring.

Harness wise, you will need an O ring that will fit 2". I thought at first that the base would be a bit small, but it does fit and wear nicely in a harness. This vibrator was for me and not my husband, so I only wore it around and didn't actually get to use it. It's bigger, but not super heavy considering the size. The wiring is a bit annoying when you wear it and I'm clumsy so I seemed to get caught in it some which way a lot. You can wrap it tightly and put a band or twist tie to prevent this.

The suction cup is meh. If you put it on a horizontal surface, it works well. If you have so much as a small angle, it fails immediately. I can get it to suction vertically for only very short periods of time. Horizontally, I can still get it to slide around if I really try. I wouldn't trust it personally, but again I'm clumsy and injury prone.

You will need 2 AAA batteries to operate the Elite. These are not included. They insert into the remote of the toy.

Since I know for sure that at least the body is waterproof, care is pretty simple. You can wash this with soap and water or toy cleaner. If you need to wash the remote, I would personally do so with a toy spray or damp cloth. If you want to test the waterproof claim, you're more than welcome. Make sure you clean it before and after use since it is a lint and hair magnet.

You should use only water based lubricants with this toy. Silicone lubes can damage silicone material.

You can store this in the box if you have the storage space. If not, you will need a larger bag for storage due to the remote control.

The Elite comes in a purple and white colored cardboard box. The front says "Fetish Fantasy Elite Vibrating 7" Dildo" and lists the features of the toy. It has a photo of the toy and a person wearing the included mask. The back has a photo of the toy in a harness as well as suctioned to a wall. It has photos of the included lube and cleaner. It has a blurb about the material and the contents of the kit. It is not at all discreet due to the wording and photos.





The box can be used for storage if needed. The cardboard is pretty thick and seems like it would hold up well. It's probably not the best for gifting unless you don't mind all the pictures and wording. There's no instructions other than what is shown on the box.

Not only do you get the vibrator, but you get a mask, toy cleaner, and lubricant as well. All it needs is a harness and your night is complete.

MASK

The mask is made of silicone. It is lavender like the vibrator. It is 9" around and 3" down. The straps are adjustable and stretchy, so it should fit most (but not all) people. It fits around my 21.5" head very comfortably as well as my husband's (bigger than mine by a good bit, but I don't have the exact measurements). The silicone is comfortable to wear, though it will pull the hair some when you put it on or take it off if you don't use the hook clips. It will not block light since it is purple in color, but it does work well at blinding vision.



LUBE AND CLEANER

The ingredients for the lubricant are:

Aloe Vera, Nettle Extract, Rosemary Extract, Balm Mint Extract, Ginseng Extract, Water, Glycerine, Hydroxyethyl, Ethylcellulose, Diazolidinyl Urea, Carbopol, Sodium Benzoate, Methylparaben, PEG 6-32, Triethanolamine, Nonylphenol, Citric Acid

The ingredients for the cleaner are:

Water, Ammonium, Lauryl Sulfate, Cocamidopropyl Betaine, Cocamide DEA, Sodium Carboxymethyl Lauryl Glucoside, Sodium PCA, Propylparaben, Methylparaben, Diazolidinyl Urea, Citric Acid

Note that there are some possible ingredients that may cause irritation for some users such as glycerin and parabens. I haven't used either of these due to the ingredients so I cannot say how well they work.

Oh, G spot, how you hate me so! When I saw this I just knew the curve would work for me. It was so lovely and hook shaped! That's just what I need! Alas, my G spot is hard to please and decided it did not want the broader stimulation provided by the head of this toy, no matter how wonderful the curve was (and it was wonderful).

I'm not throwing the towel in on this just yet and plan to keep trying. This is really one of the nicest curves I've found in a toy, or at least one of more effective ones at hitting and staying on my G spot. Meaning, it gets there and doesn't lose contact every few seconds. The bigger head actually seems to help with that. I don't even understand why this won't work because the balled end of the Pure Wand does. I think my G spot just wants to make my life miserable. In fact, I'm sure that's the case because there is really no reason this shouldn't have worked.