The Jaguar is really the only harness a person would ever need. I personally have no need for another one. This harness would work well for pretty much anyone, regardless of sex or being new to harnesses. The design is such that if a man were wearing it, his penis would rest just below the base, so not uncomfortable at all. Women, of course, have the added treat of the clitoral stimulation since the base rests right on top of the clit.

I can't see any reason why a beginner would want to start with a different style of harness, aside from a preference for the single-strap, or "butt floss" style of harness. If you find the two-strap style harness uncomfortable then the Jaguar wouldn't be a good choice.

The best way to use the Jaguar as a beginner is with a moderately-sized dildo, in order to get used to the sensation of penetrating a partner with an object not attached to you from birth. Once a person gets the hang of this, the skies the limit! Anal toys, dildos of all shapes and sizes. There's no best way to use the Jaguar once you've gotten your feet wet.

The Jaguar is made of the most amazing feeling, supple, garment leather. This is saying an awful lot as I'm vegetarian and I usually try to avoid leather. In this case, seeing as it is guaranteed for LIFE, I consider it a smart purchase.

The Jaguar is soft, flexible, and feels so lovely against my bare skin. The leather is relatively heavy, though it doesn't feel heavy once I've strapped it on. It simply conforms to my body, almost feeling like a natural extension of me. Again, even being vegetarian, I really love the leather smell of the Jaguar. Very intoxicating and sexy!

The Jaguar is constructed in what's called a two-strap design . Other harnesses are created to have a back piece in the butt area that resembles a thong. Some might call this butt floss. I'm not a fan of butt floss and I specifically sought out a harness that would avoid this uncomfortable center piece as I imagine it would be quite an unpleasant distraction when I want to be focused on my partner.

The two straps sit to the sides of your butt, almost resembling what an athletic supporter looks like. I really like this for several reasons. Not only is it super comfortable, it also adds durability to the harness. Once I tighten the buckles on both sides of the waist and the D-rings on each side of my butt, it's not going anywhere! The hip and leg straps are fully sewn and definitely don't stretch once I adjust them where I want them.

The Jaguar sits lower on my hips (think low riding jeans) than most harnesses do. The placement of the base, where you'll attach a dildo, is also lower than most, right over my clit, incidentally. Of course the great benefit to that is that it's quite stimulating to my clit during penetration, and that's always a good thing.

With the butt floss style, vaginal penetration is, if not impossible, pretty damn awkward to achieve. With the Jaguar, there's easy access to my pussy and my ass, just in case I'm greedy and want to have other things going on while I plow my victim.

The Jaguar is designed with a three-point snap-out O-ring system. This basically means that there are three strips of leather around the base of the harness that snap onto themselves. They arrive attached to 2 inch rubber O-ring. You remove the O-ring from the snaps and slide the O-ring onto the base of the dildo. You attach the dildo to the harness by connecting the three leather snaps to the O-ring. In the event that you have a toy with a wider or narrower flare at the base, you'd simply acquire the appropriate O-ring and follow the directions above. Since you can change out the O-rings with larger or smaller toys, the Jaguar really is amazingly versatile and accommodating to a great many dildos.

The harness can accommodate a waist from 26 inches to 42 inches. I had a very easy time getting the Jaguar adjusted perfectly to my body. It fit me like a glove and felt so comfortable I could wear it to bed if I wanted to. I can imagine a wide variety of shapes and sizes of wearers would feel similarly.

As I mentioned, the Jaguar fits me like a glove and conforms to my body wonderfully. It's a breeze to put on and take off. Once I initially adjusted the waist straps to my measurements, and the butt straps were tight enough to feel secure, to get out of it I simply released the buckle on one side of the waist and stepped out. The same process in reverse got me back into it within thirty seconds.

I've put several toys into the 2 inch rubber O-ring successfully. They were effortless to install onto the harness, and this is my first harness ever. In order to use smaller or larger ones I purchased different sizes of O-rings.

Once a toy was firmly in place on the Jaguar, it stayed firmly in place! I also found that the Jaguar works quite nicely with Vac-U-Lock dildos. This is basically a two part system with a separate base that fits into any Vac-U-Lock dildo. We put the base behind the harness, against my skin, at the opening for toys and attached the dildo from there. Nice, secure, comfortable fit.

The night I first wore the Jaguar we tried many different positions. It's hard to pick my favorite! We initially tried having my boyfriend lay on his back with me riding on top, my legs between his. This worked really well! My only problem is that he is a size queen and LOVES larger toys. I got a bit fatigued because my cock was so damn huge! Yes, really. I also tried a similar position, except sitting back a bit and grabbing hold under his knees. This allowed me to pull him into me without moving my hips.

A really nice position, once I got tired of plowing with my huge cock, is laying down on my back and my boyfriend kneeling above me. He got to control the depth and speed and I got to lay there and watch the show, my hands free to do as they please. I found that as he got closer to orgasm I could push him over that edge by forcefully thrusting upwards while he stopped "driving". He raved about how good that felt and told me it did indeed push him over the "edge".

There are two slight drawback we found when using the Jaguar. Some of the very large dildos we tried, (I think I mentioned my boyfriend the size queen) were difficult to fasten with the three leather snaps at the base since they were simply too big. I think we will likely solve this problem by finding Vac-U-Loc dildos in larger sizes for him. The toys I have and will use with the Jaguar (on other victims) are completely comfortable and easy to attach to the O-ring.

The second drawback we found was that when thrusting completely to the base of a dildo, my boyfriend found the three leather straps that hold the O-ring were irritating. We haven't yet come up with a solution for this.

Leather, in general, is water resistant. After each use, you should clean it with a moist cloth and mild soap (or leather cleaner). You need to wipe off any excess soap with a moist cloth and pat the harness dry, being sure to get all the moisture out of the folds and creases. Alsan Leather mentions that the Jaguar should not be hung to dry.

Never immerse it completely in water! Again, if anything rusts or breaks on the Jaguar, I can return it to Aslan Leather for free repair. Lifetime guarantee! I store it flat, in my closet on a shelf because the instructions say that the Jaguar should be stored away from direct heat and light.

You can protect the metal rivets from tarnish by applying clear nail polish. If the leather shows signs of dryness you can condition the leather with leather conditioner.

The Jaguar came packaged in a Priority Mail box with no obvious indication that the contents were sexual in nature. Packing bubble wrap was protecting the harness. Included in the box was the receipt and information on how to care for Aslan Leather products. There were no instruction included in the box, however the design of the Jaguar is very intuitive and really doesn't require instructions.

If your man hasn't ever experienced being taken by a strap-on, the Jaguar is a great first experience. I popped my boyfriend's strap-on cherry with this harness. It's not his first time playing with anal toys but to share that with someone else, to have someone else in the driver's seat, that was a first for him. He absolutely gushed and raved about how fantastic it felt. He loved how natural it looked for me to use it on him, not paying an ounce of attention to the fit, the performance, the logistics of wearing a cock that didn't belong to me. He made me feel like a porn star!

I've heard tales about strap-ons that, while they may have been less expensive, left the consumers unsatisfied due to performance issues. The Jaguar is not in that category. I couldn't have had a better experience plowing my boyfriend's virgin ass that I did with the Jaguar.

I found the Jaguar to be very capable of being worn by both myself and my boyfriend, and that was a vital feature I shopped for. After I popped his strap-on cherry, I got him to try it on so he could take it for a test drive. I wanted a turn feeling what he felt! He was able to adjust the straps just as effortlessly as I was. It did indeed fit him so that his cock rested slightly below the base, where the O-ring attaches. He told me it was totally comfortable that way. When he fucked me with the Jaguar he said it felt similar to fucking me without it. He could achieve all the same positions, and he didn't find the harness cumbersome.

Aslan Leather also has an accessory available on their website for a Jaguar attachment called the Double Up Dildo Cuff. This slides onto the rear butt straps and allows you to comfortably wear an internal dildo while penetrating with the external dildo. We purchased this little gem and used it right out of the gate. It worked marvelously with a smaller silicone toy, and definitely added to my arousal and satisfaction while penetrating my boyfriend.