This was a first time harness for me and for my relationship. My partner had used harnesses many times before and thought I would like one. I liked the price on this harness and the way it fit. The double straps kept the dildo sturdy and didn't feel like it was riding up my crack the whole time. The only problem I had with the straps was that the dildo is held in place by the same straps that go around your legs. This wouldn't normally cause a problem but if the strap on your leg were to come loose, the whole apparatus would be askew. I also liked how the dildo rested on a velvet base because it felt more padded than having direct contact on your pubic bone.

The multiple rings for different sized dildos was a great feature, but i wish they had had an additional smaller ring. The average sized dildo we purchased would slip out if we got too rough with it. It was made of silicone so the base was flexible and that might have led to the slippage. It was a turn off to be going at it and suddenly lose the dildo. The time it took to slip it back into the harness ring was enough time to lose the moment. Other styles of dildos might not have this problem though.

The vibrating base was nice but we didn't really use it. The dildo we purchased to use with this harness also came with a vibrator. The one that comes with the vibrating harness|Vibrating velvet harness wasn't especially strong and seemed to waste batteries faster so we didn't use it. I'm not sure what the vibrator in the base would do except cause the dildo to vibrate, and for that I would suggest getting a dildo that comes with a vibrator to go inside. As I said, the vibrator it comes with isn't very strong and wouldn't vibrate the dildo well.