My partner and I use this as a penis connected to our harness, and also as a dildo. There is technically no best way to use this toy, except how you are supposed to use it. We used it as a dildo first to get used to the feeling and size of it, and then later as a strap-on. We also usually use it with lube, as the material seems to sting a bit when going in and out fast. We suggest using lube to start out, as a precautionary measure. We are contemplating on using a condom to cover the dildo to see if it makes any difference with the material, and the stinging.

This toy does not particularly have a distinct smell to it. As realistic as the toy is, it may sting a bit when using it fast. I am not sure if it is because of the material it is made of. The toy, because there is a suction cup available, is harness compatible to those particular harnesses. However, we also use lubricant, as we find that it is hard to push it in without it.

The shape and design of the toy makes it look like a realistic penis. The size was near-perfect for my girlfriend and I, as we are beginners to using these type of toys. It fit well, despite some stinging due to the design of the material. We hope that will be corrected with use of a condom. It is suitable for travel, because we took it on a recent trip of ours. We made sure to check it in our luggage, so we were never questioned about it. It is not discreet in any sense of the word, though, obviously.

As mentioned before, the best thing about this toy is that it is compatible to the harness we also bought. It preformed how it was supposed to, and it brought extra pleasure when used with the harness.

This toy, so far, is easy to care for and clean. We have only used it with KY Jelly, and it doesn't seem to have had a negative effect on the toy.

The toy was packaged discreetly.