Mistress vibe kit - strap-on dildo by Vixen Creations, Inc - review by Dawn (Lilac Distraction)

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I've heard of "blue balls", but not this!

This has to be my favorite dildo. It's more than just a conventional silicone toy. The bullet that comes with this kit makes it a totally amazing combo. Whether you're using this for vaginal, anal, or harness use, you're bound to be satisfied. I know I was! I would really consider this to be a great all-purpose dildo if there ever was one.
Silicone, powerful bullet, gorgeous color, great for harness use, can be used anally or vaginally.
One-speed bullet.
Rating by reviewer:
extremely useful review


The Mistress Vibe Kit is an amazing deal for anyone who appreciates a dildo. While the size may not satisfy the size queens out there, it's perfect for vaginal and anal use with or without a harness. It's a beginner to intermediate dildo for vaginal play, as it is average size when it comes to similar sizes. For anal use, it's great for intermediate players out there. It's wonderful for experienced peggers, those looking to work themselves up to full anal sex. It can be thrusted in the vagina without worry of bruising the cervix.

The dildo has a great flared based that fits into just about any harness. The flared base is also great for use in a harness. This kit comes with a one-speed bullet that fits into the base of the dildo. The bullet vibrates the entire length of the dildo, making it wonderful for those who prefer vibrations internally. The bullet can also be used by itself for clitoral stimulation.
  • Who / How / What
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    Who might this product be best for? How is it best used? What are the best circumstances or situations for using this product?
    • Everyone
    • Gender play
    • Group situations
  • Where
    [ ? ]
    Where / what types of places can this product be used?
    • Anywhere
  • Features
    [ ? ]
    What kind of features does this product offer?
    • Travel friendly
  • Body / part areas
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    What areas on the body can this product be used / what areas does it stimulate best?
    • Anal
    • G-spot
    • P-spot

Material / Texture

The dildo is made of high-grade silicone, which is a wonderful toy material. Silicone is known for being non-porous and highly durable. The silicone can be sterilized, so it is great for sharing with others because of this. The silicone of this toy is very smooth, and has a slight grab to it, but isn't sticky or tacky in any way. With a little lube, it has a wonderful amount of glide to it. If there is enough natural lubrication (for vaginal use) lube is totally optional. The dildo is flexible and plushy, but still firm enough to not lose any of the function. The flexibility adds to the comfort level when inserted and makes this a great toy for those who are mastering anal play. Overall, the texture, material, and flexibility are all something that everyone can appreciate. The silicone did have a slight smell. I don't know if it's just me, but I love the smell of silicone toys. It's not a harsh or chemical scent, and it does fade with time and washing.

The bullet is made of plastic. While plastic is still somewhat porous, it doesn't usually make contact with any bodily fluids when used inside the dildo.
    • Flexible
    • Harness compatible
    • Not porous at all

Design / Shape / Size

This dildo is of average size. It's actually quite comparable to an average-sized penis. In total, it's about 7" long, with an insertable length of 6 1/2". It measures 1 1/4" in diameter, so it is slightly on the slim side. For harnesses, any O-ring between 1"-2 1/2" should fit the base very well. The bullet is about 2" long, and fits snugly in the hole at the end of the dildo. The bullet can be pushed in far enough that the button won't be pushed when using in a harness, and has a retrieval cord for easy removal.

The dildo has a slight curve to it, but not enough to provide much of a different sensation than a straight dildo. There is a small, realistic shaped head at the end of the dildo which can prove a little bit of extra stimulation, but it's not that much overall. Again, the shape, size, and design are all somewhat realistic, without being overly detailed. The color of this dildo is incredibly gorgeous. Mine was exactly the same color as the product page. Others have commented that their colors have varied slightly from a teal color to a peacock blue.

Overall, this toy isn't the most discreet one out there. It's a wonderful option for those who are turned off by overly-realistic toys, such as myself.
    • Beginner
    • Partner play
    • Whimsical / artistic


With this kit, you're not getting the highest quality bullet on the market, but it certainly does its job. The bullet is a simple one-speed, but the single speed is comparable to the high setting on other bullets. It's powered by 3 watch batteries which are included. I did find that it was more rumbly than buzzy. There is a single button on the base. One push turns it on, another turns it off. (I actually prefer this bullet to the others I have because I normally go straight up to high and don't need all of the lower settings.) When placed into the dildo, it's fairly quiet, and can't be heard behind a closed door. The vibrations travel extremely well through the dildo. I was surprised at how much they could be felt even at the tip.

When placed in a harness, the vibrations become even more stimulating. The bullet was able to vibrate my harness enough to cause me a moderate level of stimulation without being too buzzy or numbing. If you use this with a harness with an internal dildo holder, you're bound to have orgasms for both you and your receiving end! The dildo fit really well and snugly into my Pleasure Principle Deluxe harness and stayed put. The patent leather of the harness provided a wonderful amount of grab that kept the dildo from slipping or sliding around at all.

Internally the dildo was amazing. I love it for when I want a no-frills, realistic experience instead of using my toys which are highly angled for g-spot penetration.
    • Discreet sound
    • Easy to use
    • Powerful

Care and Maintenance

Silicone is one of the easiest materials to take care of. When you're done playing, you can wash this in the sink with mild antibacterial soap an water, or toy wash. If you want to sterilize it, it can be boiled for 10 minutes and come out germ-free. The only hang-up with silicone toys is that you can only use water-based lube. The bullet isn't waterproof, so it's best to wash with with a damp rag instead of submerging it.

Due to the lint-loving nature of this toy, make sure to give it a good rinse before you get to going with it.
    • Easy to clean
    • Easy to store


The dildo and bullet come in a plastic tube that is great for storage and will keep your toy lint-free. The tube is clear, so it's not discreet for storage by itself, but it can easily be tucked into a drawer or toy box. Sometimes I have a bit of trouble getting the top back on the tube, but it's not impossible, and it does become a bit easier after you've done it a few times.
    • Good for storage
    • Minimal


I'm really glad I decided to go with this for my first "realistic" dildo for my harness. I've told myself that I will only buy silicone dildos and avoid other materials, because I want something I can use on myself, and with others. I get really turned off by super realistic dildos, so this one was a great match for me. It's a gorgeous color, a realistic experience, and the vibrating feature is amazing. The only thing I wish is that they made this in a slightly bigger size.
Follow-up commentary
The Mistress Vibe Kit is something that I know I'll keep around for quite a while and never fall out of love with. Even if I find other toys I like better, it's still awesomely amazing for harness use and I'm nuts over this color in particular. I've used it for quite a while and the batteries seem to have lasted a bit longer that normal watch batteries. I still have no complaints about it!
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