Jesse's signature harness with twisted dong - dildo harness by Cal Exotics - review by ABiGirl4ABiGirl

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Nice for the price

Overall, I would say that this is a great buy for the occasional user who likes large dildos. With frequent use with the harness, the harness will not last. However, I would gladly have bought this kit for the dildo alone!
Great starter for large toy/harness kit. Great dildo, great for solo-play too.
Hard to clean the harness. Thong-style harness.
Rating by reviewer:
useful review


As other reviewers have stated, this is not a toy for the beginner. However, for those who enjoy a larger partner or dildo and are buying their first kit, this is perfect. After owning this for 3 years, the dildo has held up well and has no taste or strong odor. The kit comes with a jelly dildo and a harness. The harness has black straps and a red, patent leather front which is lined for comfort. The downside is that there is no attachment ring, so the dildo fits through a hole in the fabric. The care and cleaning is a damp rag and mild soap only, so for messy situations, this is an issue. The dildo is clear with a hollow red and black candy cane stripe but can be used with other harnesses with a large ring. I would say that this kit is best for one-on-one girl-girl play as the harness is thong style.
  • Who / How / What
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    Who might this product be best for? How is it best used? What are the best circumstances or situations for using this product?
    • Gender play
    • Strap-on sex
  • Where
    [ ? ]
    Where / what types of places can this product be used?
    • Tub/shower/pool
  • Features
    [ ? ]
    What kind of features does this product offer?
    • Travel friendly


The black and red harness is good for beginner use, though limited in use because of the lack of a ring and is subject to stretching with prolonged use. The dong is made of clear rigid jelly and is very attractive with its internal red and black candy stripes.
    • Leather
    • Mixed materials
    • Smooth

Design / Craftsmanship

The harness could be made better if they'd added an o-ring and made the size adjustment more user-friendly. It comes with two 5" extensions which make it a total of 50" around at full extension, but otherwise adjustment is slightly difficult, especially if you're swapping in the moment. The adjustment gives about 6" of size flexibility. The harness stitching is well-done with tight reinforcement stitching surrounding the dildo hole. The only potential weakness is in the plastic clips that are used to attach the waist strap. The "Hot!" and "Sexy" printed on the red patent leather is a bit cheesy.

The dildo is high quality jelly, so a condom is recommended for safe play. It has held up well through 3 years of use, mostly for solo-play.
    • No o-ring needed
    • Only works with some toys
    • Sturdy

Size / Fit

The harness is a good fit and worked well, but could be uncomfortable for extended or very frequent use because of the thong-style. The dildo is extra large and could be restrictive for some uses. It is definitely not for beginners.
    • Adjustable
    • Fits comfortably
    • Will fit most body sizes and types


I bought this with a play date on our first date, and it was extremely easy to use, even for a less experienced user. It took a little work and a few adjustments to get it to stay where it was comfortable for both, but in the end it worked quite nicely. I've seen some comments about the dildo coming out of the hole but have not experienced this myself. I do see where it eventually could be an issue though.
    • Does not hold toys well
    • Easy to put on

Care and Maintenance

The harness is fairly easy to take care of. It should be wiped with warm, soapy water on a damp rag. This makes for a challenge in cleaning the velour backing which is absorbent. The dildo should be washed with anti-bacterial soap or toy cleaner and stored in a cool, dark place.
    • Easy to store
    • Some parts easy to clean
    • Some parts hard to clean
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  • Lady Neshamah
    thanks for the review
  • married with children
    thanks, what size is the dildo?

    welcome to EF
  • ABiGirl4ABiGirl
    Sloppy donkey....

    Length: 8"
    Circumference: 6 1/4"
    Diameter: 2"

    More than enough to put a smile on anyone's face!
  • v23
    Nice review!
  • Miss Anonymous
    Thanks for the review!
  • bayosgirl
  • carenautilus
    Thanks for the review!
  • Highmaintenancegirl916
  • kz916
    thanks for the review.
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