This is my second vibrator, but my first was for clit stimulation only and had only one speed. The Butterfly Kiss is definitely a vast improvement over that, and the perfect size for me.

It is very small, and it can be a bit hard to reach your G-spot if you don't have the angle just right, but those are the only potential cons. If you prefer smaller toys, or if this is your first toy, the size will probably be just right for you. The curve of the toy and the shape of the head really add to the G-spot sensations, and the vibrations (even on the lowest setting) are strong enough to easily feel from the tip of the butterfly to the tip of the toy. With three settings, there's a speed for everyone. The lightest setting is great for warming yourself up before getting into more intense masturbation, and would also be suitable for sensitive people who need weaker vibrations. The heaviest setting is often too strong for me, and I have to go back down to the first setting after using it for a short while in order to have a break. The multispeed settings make it fun to go back and forth between different speeds, teasing yourself and keeping things exciting.

Though you'd need a condom for sharing due to the material of the toy, I use this one alone so that's not a problem for me. It's very easy to clean as well, and it's waterproof so I don't have to worry about damaging it. The material doesn't seem to hold any scent (though I don't have a very good sense of smell anyway,) and has a very soft gummy feel to it. It's also just a very attractive toy. Anything pink and sparkly always catches my eye, so if you're the same then the cute feminine look of the toy will be a bonus.