The Butt Banger is definitely easiest and best to use as a male masturbator. It is handheld and fits decently in your hand. However, if you are a larger fellow with smaller hands like me, then when you insert your penis, it may become a two-handed job. The Butt Banger has ribs inside of its chamber that really stimulate the head of the penis, while the attached (unusable) penis and ball combo are just there for aesthetic appeal. This toy, I think, works best for gay or bi males, mainly because of the extra penis in the room. However, if you are a straight man and feel you can overcome the extra penis, then you should definitely try this.

There were three situations in which I tried this toy, one was solo, and the others were as a supplement to sex with my boyfriend, and together at the same time with my boyfriend. There was no best way - each of these ways was amazing, so the butt banger is definitely as flexible with its use as its material.

The material is a mixture of silicone and PVC called New Supersoft. It is extremely porous, which means it picks up a lot of shit (figuratively speaking), so make sure you keep this one someplace with as little dirt and germs as possible. When I opened the package, it was covered in a powder, which turns out is corn starch. After each use, when you clean it, you should re-dust it.

The toy felt like real skin - very much like my boyfriend’s ass, to be honest (soft and squishy). The real feel of the material definitely made the entire experience better. The penis attached had a couple of veins, and as I said earlier, the inside of the chamber contains little ridges to stimulate the head, so those are the only areas of the toy that are not smooth.

When you are cleaning this toy, you should use lukewarm water and a light, anti-bacterial soap, and make sure you use only WATER-BASED lubricants.

When my boyfriend and I opened the package, it was honestly comical. We laughed at the small size of the penis and how it flopped. (Immature? Yes, probably.) However, we still were very into trying it. This toy is shaped like the ass and pubic region of a small man on the outside, while the anal cavity contains ribs to stimulate the penis, and the design’s purpose did not disappoint. The male is to insert his penis in the anal entry of the toy, and then proceed using the toy in a masturbatory motion. HOWEVER: Make sure you use a LOT of lubricant when using this toy. It dries up faster than normal, and after a while, it won't really move well.

My boyfriend is completely average in the penis department, and he loves this toy. It’s the perfect length for his penis to exit completely when he cums, and it’s the perfect tightness for him to feel the ribs inside. This toy is not easy to hide in plain sight, but you can, indeed, put it inside a drawer...make sure you keep it in its own plastic baggie to keep it safe from other materials. I would not really recommend taking this toy with you in travel situations unless you already have room in the suitcase. You wouldn't want to squish it.

I think I’ve pretty much covered this all before this point but here is the checklist on how to take care of the Butt Banger:

1. During use, use only water-based lubricants and lots of them. You don't want the silicone to cause problems with the toy.

2. After use, use a light anti-bacterial soap and let the toy dry. Make sure you clean inside the chamber. Inserting a finger will do the trick.

3. After the toy dries, dust it in a light coating of corn starch. This keeps its texture intact.

4. Put away inside a cool, dry drawer or chest inside its own plastic bag so there are no germs or dirt particles that decide to hop aboard.

As I said above, there were three ways my boyfriend and I used this toy. Here is our experiences with it:

1. SOLO

We each tried it solo first, but while each other was there. When using this, we both felt that the sensation as we entered the butt banger was phenomenal. It was very realistic the way that we popped into the anal cavity, and the toy was very tight. After a few strokes, we were both moaning very loudly, and the friction the ribs created on the head sent sensations all over my body. After about 15 pumps or so, it was time for more lubricant though. The climax for this was very intense.

2. Supplement to Sex

As I was topping my boyfriend, we decided to have him use the butt banger to see how it felt. He loved it! We came at the same time, and he said it felt like he was topping too, which to him made the pleasures of bottoming all that much more enjoyable.

3. Together at the same time

We decided to try something different with the toy, and we both entered separate ends of the butt banger and tried to use the toy together. I would say it was a success. We ended up not punching each other’s dicks, but instead they overlapped. That feeling, combined with the ribs, was enough to put us over the edge with both of us experiencing our most intense orgasms to date with the Butt Banger.