Although my wife says I'm normal, I wanted to add something extra for her. I thought the texture of this was perfect because she complained that her first vibrator was too hard. Out of the box, it looked and felt great. The hollow part was a little big for me. I had to slice the bottom a little until I got it down to my size. It was easy to put on and, after lubing up, I had no trouble inserting it. My wife enjoyed it and I ended up climaxing inside of it. When I pulled out, it kind of stuck and stretched a little before finally letting go. The second time we used it, I noticed that the solid part does not really adjust in a natural way to me. It flops around a lot, and you can really notice where I end and the extension begins. We didn't expect a life-like feel or look, so it was okay. This second time, my wife got on top and, once again, when we were finished, she tried to get up and found that it was stuck. We had to pull on it a little and the stretching caused it to tear.