I find most of the time I use this while sitting at my desk. I have used it standing and laying down before. It can also be wedged between the mattress and box to simulate doggie. I haven't used it with my wife yet, but you can play together with this toy.

It has a flesh-like material which is easy to keep clean when done. The style of this unit is very plain and has no personality to it. The contour of the inside feels like it grabs your head as you orgasm and pulls away, giving a sensation of getting a blow job.

This is the second one I bought. My first one has been discontinued. It's the Eva Angelina model. I read ads on this one and was online ordering it before I knew it. I just ordered the sleeve to use with my other case I already had, but when I opened the box the fine people at Fleshlight put in a case at no extra charge. I wouldn't suggest you try it as you might not get so lucky. It's not as tight as my other one. This is not for the small man as you will not get the friction you need to get off.

When I finish playing with my toy, I run some warm water into the sink and put the opening up to the faucet and let the jet of water clean it out, then use a bit of soap to remove the lube, let it air dry and back in the case and away till the next time. The manufacturer recommends corn starch to give it a new feel and make it not so sticky as it could get. Never use oil based lube with this or any Fleshlight toy. I use Spunk Lube. It feels so silky and natural and I don't have to keep reapplying it.

It came in a plain brown box and was very discreet. It was packed well and had all the information needed to let a new user know what to do. You could store your toy in the box for months as I did before showing it to my wife, and now I keep it in my sock drawer and she has since used the box for who knows what.

I love my Fleshlight toys so much. I wish they were hands free, which takes me to my next comment.

Fleshlight now has a Shower Mount that fits all standard cases. I got mine the other day, and since I don't always use it in the shower, I went around the house looking for a suitable place to stick it to. I could not find a place smooth enough for it to grip. In fact, even in the shower it kept falling off the wall due to the weight of the unit. Nothing worse than losing your boner every time it falls off. I also have tried placing the unit between pillows and mounting a clamp to it for a hands free good time.