The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasy - book discontinued by Cleis Press Inc. - review by Backword Odder

 When I received The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasy by Violet Blue, I couldn't wait to start reading. I'm always up for a little experimentation in the bedroom and this book seemed like the perfect opportunity to do so. As soon as I got my hands on The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasy, I had to crack its pages.

 Violet Blue starts off by establishing what sexual fantasies are and that everyone has them. She then goes on to explain how you can enjoy and get pleasure from your sexual fantasies by yourself. She gives you several examples of ways to use your fantasies, so you don't necessarily need someone else there to take full advantage of your deepest desires. Being able to get great pleasure from your fantasies on your own allows you to keep those slightly embarrassing but oh so lustful fantasies to yourself. Besides that she offers other ideas as to how to explore your fantasies and discover other hidden pools of pleasure to tap whether by yourself or with a partner.

 After explaining and covering the basics of sexual fantasy, the book really starts to get interesting around chapter three. In chapter three, Violet starts to talk about how to bring up these deep desires to a partner. She gives a few different ways to bring up your fantasies without scaring your partner away, as well as how to ease your partner into helping make your fantasies a reality. The rest of the book from that point on is about the different types of fantasies and how to go about acting them out safely, and for the most enjoyment for all.

 The Guide to Sexual Fantasy covers almost anything you would want to know. Violet Blue has packed so much useful suggestions and ideas in this book that you can make any sexual fantasy come to life. In the back of the book there is a whole chapter of resources to explore. They range from sex toy retailers, places to get role-play costumes, erotica websites and informational sites. Anything you are interested in, The Guide to Sexual Fantasy gives you a way to explore it.

 Overall, I would recommend this book to anyone. Whether you feel like being a little adventurous or are just looking for something you haven't tried yet, The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasy has an idea for you. I know this is a book I will flip through frequently.