Bossy toyfriend - rabbit vibrator by Toyfriend - review by zecookiepuss

Bossy toyfriend

Rabbit vibrator by Toyfriend

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Too Bossy To Be Nice

Overall, I was incredibly disappointed with this toy. For the price I really felt like the design would be more fitting and I would be able to be successful using it both vaginally and anally. Neither were that pleasurable and definitely not worth it in my opinion. My partner concurs. Use your money and buy a different rabbit vibe rather than the Bossy Toyfriend.
Easy to clean, smooth to touch, inexperienced users could figure it out easily.
Poor fit, very loud, expensive for what you get
Rating by reviewer:
useful review


The Bossy Toyfriend can be used for all sorts of play. Alone or with a partner the toyfriend will stimulate your clitoris, or is great vaginally and/or anally if you want it to. However, if you're looking for a vibe that will stimulate you in two places at the same time the Toyfriend is not for you.
  • Who / How / What
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    Who might this product be best for? How is it best used? What are the best circumstances or situations for using this product?
    • Couples
    • Everyone
    • Solo
  • Where
    [ ? ]
    Where / what types of places can this product be used?
    • Anywhere
  • Body / part areas
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    What areas on the body can this product be used / what areas does it stimulate best?
    • Anal
    • Clitoris

Material / Texture

The material of the Toyfriend is a silicone material that is soft to the touch initially. Initially I didn't find that it had any smell at all, but I do find that it has a slight plastic smell now. Although that outside of the toy is quite smooth the remainder of the Toyfriend is quite firm aside from that. There is a lot of flexibility of the "rabbit" appendage of the toy in that it can be moved to suite your needs, but the main segment as well as the bulbous region of the appendage are firm. As far as my experience has been the texture did not add any additional stimulation to the experience if anything it just made it very easy to insert without much lubrication.

As far as who this would suite best I'd say it's definitely a beginners toy, although certainly not at a beginner price.
    • No odor
    • Not porous at all
    • Smooth

Design / Shape / Size

I was severely disappointed with how this toy actually "fit" my body, as it did not fit very well at all. If I inserted it vaginally the rabbit ears were much higher than my clitoris, eliminating the dual possibility. I did try to use this anally and vaginally at the same time as well and again, to no avail. Very disappointing indeed. Using it in one place or the other I didn't find it particularly special. It's pretty big and wouldn't be an ideal choice for discreet hiding nor travel either.
    • Beginner
    • Futuristic
    • Partner play

Functions / Performance / Controls

This toy is not a quiet one. In fact, I found it to be quite noisy and has hindered my available options of when to use it for that very reason. The control for this toy is one push button at the bottom of the toy so when it was inserted it was difficult to change the settings. There are several modes to try and various speeds and pulses when pushing the button, but none floated my boat. A majority of the vibration is in the main part of the vibe, adding to my dismay that the bunny ears really didn't do much at all. This toy is indeed waterproof and it proved to perform as well in water as it did outside of it, and it was incredible easy to dry off after being submerged.
    • Multiple settings
    • Not discreet at all
    • Strong patterns

Care and Maintenance

The Bossy Toyfriend is very easy to clean and care for as far as silicone vibes go. In order to clean it all you need is some soap and water, and it'll be all set for the next time around. This toy worked well with both oil and water based lubes, but it should not be used with silicone based lubricant. It came with a stand to put the base of the Toyfriend in when not in use that works well to keep the Toyfriend standing at attention, but I found that to be a bit conspicuous so I store it in a silky bag instead to keep it hidden and clean.
    • Difficult to store
    • Easy to clean


The box the Toyfriend was packaged in could be used as a storage box, but it's not particularly cute or clever looking. It could indeed be used as a gift box though. This toy does require two AAA batteries, but thankfully they are included with the toy. If you are looking for instructions on how to use this product you will be disappointed. In fact, there weren't many instructions at all included with the toy aside from how to change the vibration speeds which was easy to figure out without instructions.
    • Good for storage
    • Not discreet

Personal comments

Both my partner and I tried this toy. I thought that perhaps different bodies would have different experiences and neither of us enjoyed this product. It just didn't fit right and at $70+ it's absolutely a no buy.


I used this toy solo and also had my partner use it on me as well. I bought this toy hoping to use it in two areas at a time so using it on myself or my partner using it on me worked fine aside from only being able to use it in one area at a time. Both my partner and I suggest to skip this one and go for a cheaper and more effective rabbit vibe instead.
Follow-up commentary
I've tried this toy once or twice more after reviewing it in hopes that I could enjoy some aspect of it and not feel like I have completely wasted my money. However, the attempts were to no avail; this toy is the least favorite of my collection, and I should really just toss it and make room for a toy I will enjoy.
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  • Dangerous Lilly
    Unlike other people, I actually like leaving a meaning comment!
    I'm glad to see this review because it's pretty much confirmed what I assumed - that the ears are ridiculously proportioned and not at all practical. The whole design just looks....wrong. I agree, $70 for this? No way.
  • deltalima
    Nice review.
  • Zombirella
    What are the vibration speeds/functions like? What type of material exactly? What type of batteries? I would suggest the mentor program here at EF
  • Vegan Silk
    a little more detail would be helpful
  • ghent529
    great thanks
  • PeaceToTheMiddleEast
    Thanks for sharing!
  • hyperballad
  • Tbanda
    Thanks, great review!
  • nosrslylol
    Thanks for your review
  • mrsduncan
    Thanks for the honest review.
  • J5ive
  • vanilla&chocolate
    Thanks for the review!
  • BlackStarLight9
    thank you
  • molly
    thanks for the review!
  • Peres2013
    Very nice review! Thank you!
  • amenti

    Thank you for your helpful review on this weirdly shaped toy!

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