At least, for me it remains a myth.

Utopia ended up being too big; the oval shape of the head made it too wide. I had trouble getting it in, even with lots of lube (water based lube since the toy is silicone). The silicone kept catching against my skin and causing a pinching sensation, and again, that was with the excess lube I needed just to get it in! When I did get it in, the rabbit hit too high. Even if it hadn't, I wasn't all that impressed with the vibrations. As for the the movement of the pieces within the shaft, it wasn't very noticeable even on the highest setting. It was also loud.

Being my first silicone toy, I'm not sure I'll ever be a fan of silicone either. Sure it's softer and flexible, but it catches my skin, and it starts collecting dust and fuzz the moment it is dry after washing. And I would let it air dry!

The box it comes in is really too large for the product. It's not even held securely inside, just wrapped in a thin foam packing sleeve and then put in a pocket of cardboard with too much space around it. And then that is slipped into its cardboard shell. The end.

I wish it came in colors besides pink. Not that the color would have changed anything, but overall I prefer my toys not to be 'showy'. I could have forgiven this toy for being pink if it had worked out for me. Now it's just another thing on an even longer list of dislikes about this rabbit dildo.

Each time I tried to make it work felt like a chore. A very unpleasant chore. I would rather do real chores than play with this toy ever again.

This isn't so much a follow up as it is a clarification. Now, I still want, and am looking for, a good rabbit or dual stimulation vibrator, but I don't just buy my toys willy-nilly.

I read all the reviews on the Utopia--good, bad, and in-between--in order to get the most unbiased opinion. I reviewed all the measurements and compared those measurements to the toys I already did own, particularly my largest glass piece since it is the longest and thickest toy in my small collection.

Given all the information I read, the Utopia seemed like a good size and fit. It just turned out not to be the case.

No toy is going to be one size fits all, and like anything ordered online there is risk involved in it not working out. Though when it comes to buying sex toys in an actual store, I can't imagine your odds of success to be any better. You can't 'try them on' first the way you can try on clothes before buying.

I also admit to taking my disappointment and frustration about the Utopia out in the review. For that, I apologize. So if you are considering getting the Utopia while reading this, please, make sure to read all the other reviews as well. After all, I'm just one person.

I certainly hope it works out for the next person who decides to give it a shot.