Of course, whose to blame isn't really the issue, according to Nina. It's about recognizing your role and responsibility in making sure you get that orgasm, instead of waiting for someone to bring it to you by accident. This week, Nina talks about how to get to know yourself and your own way to orgasm better, shedding preconceived notions on how you are "supposed" to reach orgasm during partnered sex, and how to share this new found information with your partner so they can more successfully help you cross the finish line.
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Got something you want to ask Nina? (Of course you do.) Drop her a line at tuesdayswithnina@gmail.com. Now, while we can’t promise that every question received will get a personal response, however, those that do will be answered frankly, entertainingly, enlighteningly and, if we know Nina, in the spirit of happy, healthy sex and a satisfied libido.
This one really struck home for me because I used to be this way--for years my only method of orgasming was also masturbating on my stomach with my hands. Nina, your advice mirrors exactly what helped me--learning different ways to get myself off and playing around with doggie style are what contributed to me being able to orgasm with a partner. However, in case the original person submitting the question is watching, I'd like to add if you are curious about anal it might be time to start experimenting, because the angles of your body and location make it quite easy to have sex with a guy (including average sized penises not long enough for "collapsed doggie") while completely prone on your stomach. It was that version of doggie that ultimately brought me to my first partnered orgasm and it's still a favorite today and maybe it might work for others too. Obviously you'd want to take it slow and do your homework on how to be safe and pain-free about it, but something to consider.