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Tuesdays With Nina: We're All Responsible For Our Own Orgasms

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Your boyfriend has only made you come once in a year? Is that his fault or is it yours?

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Contributor: edie98
edie98  

This one really struck home for me because I used to be this way--for years my only method of orgasming was also masturbating on my stomach with my hands. Nina, your advice mirrors exactly what helped me--learning different ways to get myself off and playing around with doggie style are what contributed to me being able to orgasm with a partner. However, in case the original person submitting the question is watching, I'd like to add if you are curious about anal it might be time to start experimenting, because the angles of your body and location make it quite easy to have sex with a guy (including average sized penises not long enough for "collapsed doggie") while completely prone on your stomach. It was that version of doggie that ultimately brought me to my first partnered orgasm and it's still a favorite today and maybe it might work for others too. Obviously you'd want to take it slow and do your homework on how to be safe and pain-free about it, but something to consider.

08/28/2011