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Help for a Newbie....Tie Up and Blindfold

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Contributor: Bubba29 Bubba29
My wife asked me to tie her up and blindfold her. Ok, this is out of character for her but I love it. I am excited she is getting creative. Anyways, I have never really thought about this or watched people do it. She really is not into pain.

Ladies when you in this submissive position, what do you like to be done to you?
03/03/2013
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Contributor: AmethystQueen AmethystQueen
Oh please! That's all I want! When I'm tied down and blindfolded, the anticipation is heightened. Your job is to tease her body.

Maybe give her a massage on the non-erotic parts and then slowly move towards to erotic parts.

Or start lightly kissing her from head to toe. First going over non-erotic parts then non-erotic parts. If you have a toy, use that while you start the erotic parts.

Speaking of a toy, you could just use it to almost bring her to O, then back off. Then bring her to almost O again, then back off. If you do that enough times her final O will be HUGE! =)

You could also just start an extended oral or anilingus session with her.

You can also do an erotic massage only fucusing on her pleasure centers...

Oh the options are endless...=) Have fun!
03/03/2013
Contributor: BloodHound BloodHound
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Originally posted by Bubba29
My wife asked me to tie her up and blindfold her. Ok, this is out of character for her but I love it. I am excited she is getting creative. Anyways, I have never really thought about this or watched people do it. She really is not into pain. ... more
Advice from the top. Don't tie the ropes too tightly. Tying the rope too tightly can result in temporary or in severe cases permanent nerve damage. The ropes can also pinch and bind if your wife moves around any while she's tied up. The pinching and the binding can become uncomfortable and can also result in nerve damage.

Always check to see if appendages are going numb. Check fingers and arms and feet and legs. If there is rope around an area you need to check the area below the tie. If she starts to loose feeling this could be because of lack of circulation.

Check out some books on rope bondage for techniques of rope bondage. Showing your the Ropes by Two Knotty Boys is a good one. They also have a website, TwoKnottyBoys with
has videos you can download.

TwsitedMonk
03/03/2013
Contributor: itismedi itismedi
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Originally posted by Bubba29
My wife asked me to tie her up and blindfold her. Ok, this is out of character for her but I love it. I am excited she is getting creative. Anyways, I have never really thought about this or watched people do it. She really is not into pain. ... more
I would recommend sex tape. I only sticks to itself and you can find it easily. It tears pretty easy for you, but the more she wiggles the harder it will be for her to get loose. Also be careful about positions. If her arm is trapped under her and in a painful position and/or going numb nothing you do to her is going to be pleasurable.

Hmmmm... no pain? Okay well, no pain suggestions. I love it when I do not know where my husband is. Tying her up, on her back, with a pillow under her hips will give you access to almost her whole body. I second bringing her to the edge of orgasm and then backing off. Either that or telling her she cannot come without your permission. When you feel her getting close slow down.

Touch her breast, then her thigh, etc... keep changing it up so she doesn't know where you are.
03/03/2013