Often, D/s relationships are just that. It's not too common for BDSM to cross over strongly into a marriage, although elements certainly do for some to spice up the sexlife.
For you married folk that also enjoy elements of BDSM, how do you integrate one with the other? Do you just do bring elements like cuffs and paddles just during sex times, or do you try and maintain the D/s relationship outside the bedroom? What works for you and doesn't work?
For you married folk that also enjoy elements of BDSM, how do you integrate one with the other? Do you just do bring elements like cuffs and paddles just during sex times, or do you try and maintain the D/s relationship outside the bedroom? What works for you and doesn't work?