Do you like your bottom spanked or do you like to spank your partners? With what do you like to be spanked with? Like it soft, hard, or leaving welts?
I think bare handed, over the knee spanking is my personal favorite but if I have to choose a toy I'm definitely gonna go with an elk or moose skin flogger. I feel like of all the floggers it's the most versatile since you can really make it sting or just make it pop.
I think bare handed, over the knee spanking is my personal favorite but if I have to choose a toy I'm definitely gonna go with an elk or moose skin flogger. I feel like of all the floggers it's the most versatile since you can really make it
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I think bare handed, over the knee spanking is my personal favorite but if I have to choose a toy I'm definitely gonna go with an elk or moose skin flogger. I feel like of all the floggers it's the most versatile since you can really make it sting or just make it pop.
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I had never heard of an elk or moose flogger. I googled and they look fun. They are a bit pricey though, but I guess you get what you pay for. Thanks for sharing.
I recently had my first experience of being spanked or slapped, really, on my tush. I actually liked it, although, prior to this experience, I always thought it would be painful I did not want to be spanked.
When we are in the mood, we will do some very very light spanking. Today was one of those days. We played a game and the winner got to spank the loser lightly with the hand.
Well, I gave her a rematch after dinner and she won this time. Collected her winnings last night. This morning, guess what ? She told me she enjoyed giving me the smacks and will do it harder next time !
My current partner is the only person who's ever spanked me. The first time he did it, I was surprised and a little offended. I wasn't sure how to feel. Now, I like it when the mood is right, during sex when I'm on top. I wouldn't be okay with the whole "bending me over his knee" type of spanking.
Hmm, spanking is very fun, but I prefer softer materials on my skin (fur! suede!) and GIVING more stingy sensations. I'm a huge fan of using rulers and bare hands
I wish I could say I've been spanked by a variety of things, but I've only gotten to know hand, crop, and a wooden paddle. All of those are fun, but I'd like to experience a variety of materials before I could truly declare a favorite.
Do you like your bottom spanked or do you like to spank your partners? With what do you like to be spanked with? Like it soft, hard, or leaving welts?
I LOVE to be spanked! Although I like implements I have to say I like his hand on my ass the most and I enjoy the sting and hot throbbing for hours (occasionally a day or two) and I like to see his handy work after the fact.
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06/04/2014
k1985g
It depends...
All those opportunities to give/get a good spankin', disciplinary or foreplay (all, however, are ultimately erotic!)
Will I dominate or submit? Who's up for some intense stimulation?
I love to warm my hand as I make her sooo wet as her bottom start tingling
...or the intimate feel of her hand on my behind?
Maybe we stay with the hand--or notch up the sting with an implement; mmmmm!
I've never been crazy about it, but my Mistress certainly enjoys spanking me and uses it often as a form of discipline. Mistress has me bend over a chair every morning to present my bottom for a spanking and I suppose I've learned to get to enjoy it by now, even when She goes at me pretty hard and I love it! ;P
My Mistress will often correct any misbehavior with a swiftly administered spanking that typically leaves welts on my butt afterward. I do not find this punishment very pleasurable and try to avoid receiving them (I guess that's the point... lol).
I'm scared to hurt people, so don't. I have however been spanked. It's okay. It makes me feel like a superhero to end up with bruises but as I'm getting hit it's not so pleasurable; it's the after effect I like.
I love to be both the spankee and spanker! I think I like receiving more though Love red marks, welts, bruieses I draw the line when blood is shed though. I do not have a favorite method as of yet, still experimenting.
As for tips and tricks number one rule is knowing no is no. If you don't like it say something, set up a safeword if needed. I like to say no & stop but beg for more so safewords are a good thing for me.
Start of gentle and gradually work your way up harder. Teasing with whatever item you are going to use for the spanking is always a huge turn on (for me anyway) and may help relax the spankee and/or spanker.
k1985g
