Choking......would you do it?

Contributor: puddi puddi
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Originally posted by Nirelan
My man wants to choke me while we have sex.....not actually hurt me but he wants that rush that it's possible I guess. I don't understand this at all and I quite frankly am not up for it or interested at all and VERY uncomfortable that he ... more
You should never, ever do something you're not comfortable with! Consent should always be 100% enthusiastic. c:

I think that part of being in a strong, healthy relationship is trust and understanding. If you want your relationship to be healthy and strong, you need to be able to trust one another and be understanding to one another.

I think the best option would be to explain this to your man, then tell him that you're uncomfortable with him choking you, but you are up to try other things!
05/24/2012
Contributor: KinkyKatiya KinkyKatiya
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Originally posted by Nirelan
My man wants to choke me while we have sex.....not actually hurt me but he wants that rush that it's possible I guess. I don't understand this at all and I quite frankly am not up for it or interested at all and VERY uncomfortable that he ... more
Personally I love being choked especially right before I cum. If it scares you that much though. what i do is I have a tap system. when I what him to stop i tap him three times so he knows to let go.
05/24/2012
Contributor: HisOneAndOnly HisOneAndOnly
Quote:
Originally posted by Nirelan
My man wants to choke me while we have sex.....not actually hurt me but he wants that rush that it's possible I guess. I don't understand this at all and I quite frankly am not up for it or interested at all and VERY uncomfortable that he ... more
There are limits in the choking aspect. My partner grabs my throat and grips it in the heat of the moment but never enough to hurt me. I always thought that I would be against it, and surprisingly I wasn't. I was completely into it and love it when he does it now!!!! I wouldn't recommend doing it if you don't feel comfortable with it though. You can't just do something because your partner wants to.
06/21/2012