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kawigrl kawigrl
physically or metaphorically, there seem to be a few kinky people around here (bdsm "kinky" vs vanilla kinky)
03/30/2011
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SaucyMan SaucyMan
Quote:
Originally posted by kawigrl
physically or metaphorically, there seem to be a few kinky people around here (bdsm "kinky" vs vanilla kinky)
I don't personally wear a collar, though I'm interested to learn what you mean by metaphorically.
03/30/2011
RosesThorns RosesThorns
I dont currently wear a physical collar, but I do wear one on a mental level. I know that I am his and he knows this as well. We are talking about getting a physical collar to represent this.
03/30/2011
VanillaCupcake VanillaCupcake
Quote:
Originally posted by kawigrl
physically or metaphorically, there seem to be a few kinky people around here (bdsm "kinky" vs vanilla kinky)
I'd like to wear one, but it wouldnt be as good if I bought it myself obviously so Im just waiting
04/07/2011
Dusk Dusk
I wear one sometimes for specific scenes, but our dynamic doesn't really work that way.
04/07/2011
MaryExy MaryExy
I do not wear one, my guy has mentioned the idea for play, though, and he's a big fan of leaving marks. I think if he saw something about using other kinds of accessories as collars, he would be interested in the idea. Like something more feminine/girly. I'm like Cupcake here, I don't want to just flat out ask for one or get something myself.
04/07/2011
Joie de Cherresse Joie de Cherresse
Yes, not all the time though. Mine has spikes ... And yes, there are a LOT of kinky people here, lol...
04/07/2011
Chilipepper Chilipepper
My Master asked for my neck measurements - he intends to put one on me the moment I step into his flat when I visit him in England. Feels comforting.
04/07/2011
sexy19364 sexy19364
I wear a leather collar, and I wear it all the time. (unless I'm visiting family) Once my Master feels that he has trained me enough, he will be getting me a permanent Allen wrench steel collar.
04/07/2011
EvaChangeN EvaChangeN
I have worn a collar ever since I was engaged to the hubby, which I was 16. It also highlights my neck (which I love) and hubby can "drag" me with it I'm not talking about those cute little hot topic collars either LOL My first sex shop purchase was my 2 in wide triple layer leather, with top layer of purple velvet and a huge heavy O ring. I wore it for 14 years, before it was worn to hell (almost daily when not at work) and had to find another!
04/10/2011
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Yes I love collars.
04/13/2011
Taylor Taylor
I wear one when we are playing, but not all the time. I like wearing it though.
04/13/2011
k3 k3
Yes, yes! I wear a collar 24/7--it is red and silver braided chain kind of, and is padlocked around my neck. I absolutely love it. My collar reminds me that I am owned and loved, and the padlock reminds me that Master wants very much to keep it that way as well. *Purr* And I also have a play collar for more bondage-y situations, and a dress-up collar with a red bell and sparklies and tied in the back with a big red bow! It makes me feel very kitten and matches my kitty ears and paws, all a gift from a close friend. <3
04/28/2011
kelaaa33wish kelaaa33wish
No I don't wear one.
04/28/2011
MissAnna MissAnna
Quote:
Originally posted by kawigrl
physically or metaphorically, there seem to be a few kinky people around here (bdsm "kinky" vs vanilla kinky)
I wear a collar all the time just as a personal preference. I am BDSM kinky for sure, but adjust to vanilla kinky if I am with a guy who isn't into all the BDSM aspects.
04/29/2011
M121212 M121212
I don't
04/29/2011
P'Gell P'Gell
We finally found one that is thin and light enough for me to wear! I have a problem with my Vagus nerve and I get sweaty, anxious and start to faint if much pressure is put on my neck or the nerves around it.

We found a lovely little thin leather collar, sold as a wrapped bracelet. Bitty little metal studs on it. It buckles in back. Cute as can be, but I don't wear it all the time. It doesn't have a D or O ring on it, just a buckle. We have me wear it when it feels right.
04/29/2011
IrishLassie IrishLassie
I do not. We are under the agreement that I am his. But we have talked about getting one and I don't know if he wants to get different ones for play and non-play time. I guess we will have to talk about it again.
05/02/2011
VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
I wear one Though I wear mine more in private and to some public places, but I'm not comfortable wearing it out all the time just yet.
05/02/2011
MilyxXxD MilyxXxD
nope
10/07/2012
A.S. A.S.
No, no interest
10/10/2012
KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
I have one. It came in a set with my wrist and ankle cuffs. My dom and I feel taht collaring is a really really deep commitment. I am not sure it fit our dynamic either. So no, I don't wear a collar. I probably won't unless it is for a scene.

Also, I am of the opinion that the dom expresses interest in collaring, and he is of the opinion that the sub expresses interest of being collared. It seems that we will always be at an impasse.
10/11/2012
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