If you switch, do you find it harder to be Dom or Sub? Why?
Dom or Sub which is more difficult for those that switch?
08/26/2013
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It depends on how you define "harder." I'm a switch by technicality. I sub 24/7 for my dom, but occasionally I top other people to get it out of my system. Because I spend more time in subby mindset, it's more natural for me to get into that head space, and the other half sits patiently and waits.
But when I get opportunities to let my domme out, in a short amount of time I can get there too. it just takes a tad more focus, and I have to adjust some things in my brain. Like remembering they're putting trust in me vs trusting my dom not to screw up.
But when I get opportunities to let my domme out, in a short amount of time I can get there too. it just takes a tad more focus, and I have to adjust some things in my brain. Like remembering they're putting trust in me vs trusting my dom not to screw up.
03/24/2014
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I am the same way. I love to sub with my bf but we both are switches ao though he likes to dom every once in awhile we just (for lack of a better word) switch it up.
Originally posted by
emilymileena
It depends on how you define "harder." I'm a switch by technicality. I sub 24/7 for my dom, but occasionally I top other people to get it out of my system. Because I spend more time in subby mindset, it's more natural for me to get
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It depends on how you define "harder." I'm a switch by technicality. I sub 24/7 for my dom, but occasionally I top other people to get it out of my system. Because I spend more time in subby mindset, it's more natural for me to get into that head space, and the other half sits patiently and waits.
But when I get opportunities to let my domme out, in a short amount of time I can get there too. it just takes a tad more focus, and I have to adjust some things in my brain. Like remembering they're putting trust in me vs trusting my dom not to screw up. less
But when I get opportunities to let my domme out, in a short amount of time I can get there too. it just takes a tad more focus, and I have to adjust some things in my brain. Like remembering they're putting trust in me vs trusting my dom not to screw up. less
03/24/2014
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Harder to dom. I call myself a switch w sub tendencies. I enjoy either role but D doesn't come as naturally to me.
Originally posted by
Bme
If you switch, do you find it harder to be Dom or Sub? Why?
06/29/2014
Way harder to dom for me. Mostly because I consider myself a sub and switch mostly pro forma (aka because my partner is also subby). subbing comes way more naturally though.
07/16/2014
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I'm somewhere between a switch and a sub. I still enjoying taking a more dominant role sometimes. I wouldn't say it's harder for me, it's simply not the way things usually are in our relationship.
Originally posted by
Bme
If you switch, do you find it harder to be Dom or Sub? Why?
06/14/2016
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