Financial Domination- into it?

Contributor: gwenevieve gwenevieve
Just wondering how many of the lovely people on EF participate in/have even heard of financial domination. I'm sure all cam girls on the site know a thing or two about it, but what about everyone else?

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Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I love it
4  (11%)
It's okay/don't like it.
16  (44%)
Never heard of it.
16  (44%)
Total votes: 36
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04/23/2013
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Contributor: TheirPet TheirPet
Not a fan. My money stays separate even in a non BDSM or dominance related relationship.
04/23/2013
Contributor: AmethystQueen AmethystQueen
I'd think you'd have to be even MORE of a Domme to do that. That's seriously controlling someone's life.
04/23/2013
Contributor: sunflower sunflower
Wait, you mean people on the internet have a fetish for having people for controlling their finances and will buy their dommes stuff? And I can humiliate them about it? Sign me up. It sounds like having a sugar daddy but I'm the one in control. There's a sucker born every minute!

Sorry if I am grossly misunderstanding your internet profession because I do not really know much about it other than what google told me. Or if it's an irl thing because I don't know. Feel free to correct me about stuff.
04/23/2013
Contributor: Gary Gary
I have never heard this term before.
04/23/2013
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
Yes in camming it is common and yes I have done this a couple of times.
04/23/2013
Contributor: Ciao. Ciao.
I have definitely heard of financial domination, and I can absolutely see why someone might have an interesting in doing it from the dominant end of things. Still the whole thing just feels kind of weird/uncomfortable to me.
04/23/2013
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
I've never heard that term before.
04/23/2013
Contributor: gwenevieve gwenevieve
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Originally posted by sunflower
Wait, you mean people on the internet have a fetish for having people for controlling their finances and will buy their dommes stuff? And I can humiliate them about it? Sign me up. It sounds like having a sugar daddy but I'm the one in control. ...
That's basically the gist of it. I've been getting into the niche and it's been a reallllll treat!

It's mostly online. A lot of cam shows, or phone calls, or just texting, even. Most dommes receive their tributes through paypal, but there are now sites opening up to it, it's becoming a really big thing now.
04/26/2013
Contributor: Gdom Gdom
Not really my thing. I have enough other kinks to make up for it though
04/26/2013
Contributor: Taylor Taylor
I've never known anyone who was into this. I've heard of some "Dommes" in my area doing this, but from what I've understood they were mostly just trying to take advantage of submissive men in the area and it wasn't a fetish for them at all.
04/26/2013
Contributor: sunflower sunflower
Quote:
Originally posted by gwenevieve
That's basically the gist of it. I've been getting into the niche and it's been a reallllll treat!

It's mostly online. A lot of cam shows, or phone calls, or just texting, even. Most dommes receive their tributes through ...
Seriously? You should PM me and tell me how you got into it because I'd love to do this. I'm completely interested in this. I have no moral hang-ups. I bet you're laughing all the way to the bank!
04/26/2013
Contributor: purpleflower1972 purpleflower1972
It's kind of weird to me.
04/26/2013
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by gwenevieve
Just wondering how many of the lovely people on EF participate in/have even heard of financial domination. I'm sure all cam girls on the site know a thing or two about it, but what about everyone else?

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Well I have a partner that wouldn't mind it and it's a small part of our roleplay but the reality is he is much more financially responsible than I am so it's just roleplay. The reality is that he gives whatever the family needs and works very hard for us all but the thrill of being taken advantage of is a small turn on for him. I dunno if he would actually like total financial domination.

Now my sister has had subs give her a credit card and a massive spending limit...so ya it is a fetish for some men, and I would assume some women.
04/26/2013
Contributor: Love Bites Love Bites
Quote:
Originally posted by gwenevieve
Just wondering how many of the lovely people on EF participate in/have even heard of financial domination. I'm sure all cam girls on the site know a thing or two about it, but what about everyone else?

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Nobody but me is going to control my money. Sorry, but hands off my bank roll.
04/30/2013
Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
While I had not heard of it before now, I really like this idea.
04/30/2013
Contributor: charletnarouh charletnarouh
Oour relationship involves my Mistress restricting my spending and financial obligations and supervising my budget and bills but it's for my benefit, not Hers, to better myself and my financial situation, which, of course, ultimately benefits Uus as a couple because Wwe are able to do more things when i'm not broke all the time. The type of financial Dominance some people are describing here sounds sketchy and potentially dangerous. Most responsible Dominants and Masters i know hold that financial dependence in either direction is risky at best and irresponsible at worst and taking a submissive's money and not using it to the submissive's benefit or household/family benefit would be highly suspect and very irresponsible and possibly outright neglectful. Of course, it's all about trust and personal limits. If the finances of the people involved allow for it and they're both ok with it, and both respect the rules and limitations and so forth and have absolute trust in one another and it makes them happy, then great. i think keeping the other person's safety and security, in this case, their financial security counts, and keeping your partner's best interests in mind at all times is paramount in any relationship. Personally, money isn't something to play with and when setting up my Mistress's involvement in my finances things were handled VERY carefully.
04/30/2013
Contributor: SydneyScreams SydneyScreams
I've had a financial sub before, but they're very hard to come by (at least good ones who stick around)
05/05/2013
Contributor: novanilla novanilla
I would not be interested in that at all. I don't want other people involved in my financial decisions or telling me what to do.
06/17/2013
Contributor: Ms. N Ms. N
There are definitely a lot of guys out there who want this. When I used to post lingerie pictures for my (no longer existing) blog, I had numerous guys who asked - sometimes begged - to send me money and/or gifts. I did let some, but it wasn't really my thing, especially when I knew some of the guys could not afford it.
06/17/2013
Contributor: twelve13 twelve13
I like to keep finances separate from my BDSM life.
06/17/2013
Contributor: tami tami
Quote:
Originally posted by gwenevieve
Just wondering how many of the lovely people on EF participate in/have even heard of financial domination. I'm sure all cam girls on the site know a thing or two about it, but what about everyone else?

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never heard of it but my money is mine and his is also mine. the bills get paid then we have whatever is left to make it through the next pay for what ever it is we may need or want.
06/17/2013
Contributor: namelesschaos namelesschaos
Never done it, not my thing.
06/17/2013
Contributor: falalena falalena
Quote:
Originally posted by gwenevieve
Just wondering how many of the lovely people on EF participate in/have even heard of financial domination. I'm sure all cam girls on the site know a thing or two about it, but what about everyone else?

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I haven't heard of it, but if someone wants me to be their financial dom I know of a few student loans that could be paid off...
06/17/2013
Contributor: surreptitious surreptitious
Quote:
Originally posted by gwenevieve
Just wondering how many of the lovely people on EF participate in/have even heard of financial domination. I'm sure all cam girls on the site know a thing or two about it, but what about everyone else?

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I love having a hand over people's wallets, far moreso than I care for sexual domination. The whole sexual aspect really doesn't do it for me, but back when I was living in the city, I made almost a thousand dollars (which went straight to paying off my loans) doing that sort of thing. I'd really like to move back to the city and take it up again.
06/17/2013
Contributor: Cinnyree Cinnyree
lol this is totally fab! I have no interest in money but if the money is to get more toys, props, or lingerie that would be awesome.
06/17/2013
Contributor: SickOnSin SickOnSin
Quote:
Originally posted by gwenevieve
Just wondering how many of the lovely people on EF participate in/have even heard of financial domination. I'm sure all cam girls on the site know a thing or two about it, but what about everyone else?

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My money is MINE. My computers are MINE. My dog is MINE. Don't screw with things that are mine. He has control where it matters, but somethings I need to have my control over. I'm ueber sensitive about my computers. Why because they were REALLY expensive and the last thing I need is for someone else to break them then have to invest more money on fixing them. My dog again I spent a lot of money on training her and she won't listen to someone else. Far as money goes well I earned it why shouldn't I have control over it. It's fine if he wants to control how I spend HIS money, but not MINE. I maybe a switch, but mainly a submissive however that doesn't mean I am a doormat and will not disagree with things.
06/17/2013
Contributor: Ms. N Ms. N
I think some people have the wrong idea of what financial domination is. It isn't that your partner is controlling your money. That is called marriage. I'm kidding, just kidding.

Financial domination is a fetish, usually of men, wherein the submissive (or money slave) desires to get and keep their domme's attention by buying her gifts and paying her bills for her. It is not indicative of a romantic relationship between the two. It's a business relationship for the domme which fills a need in the submissive. It is growing more and more common online. The sub may never even meet the domme IRL.
06/17/2013
Contributor: FrustratedFemme FrustratedFemme
I've heard of it before, but I don't know much about it. It's not a kink for me. (Although if someone wanted to buy me gifts as a kink of theirs, I'd be more than happy to do it. This is one occasion where I'd absolutely be a top.)
06/19/2013