Have you cried during sex? Have you had sex while the other person cried? You can select only one. Private voting.

I have had three female sexual partners cry during sex. They said it was a positive emotional thing that happened during the release of an intense orgasm. It kinda freaked me out though the first time my partner started weeping after what I thought was great sex untill she explained it to me.

Aloha,

To all the women who are starting to think that men never, ever weep, cry during or after making love...as hard as it is to admit...yes, I know there are many guys who have or will shed a few tears when just thinking about the closeness and feelings of love from even just BEING with a true loved one and not even necessarily during or after making love.

As unfortunate as it is in this world, we guys have learned so many ways to shed a tear and/or cry without being detected. I agree, it's a shame it's like that and a man shouldn't feel the need to hide ANY emotions during that time with his loving woman. However, something deep down inside us has been instilled that all gals look to us men to be their "staff of strength" and showing any emotional weakness(es) will definitely make women think their man is some sort of "wuss". I don't agree with this thinking, it's just the way of the world for some reason. I guess that's the way it always seems to have been throughout history, or something.

My wife of 30 years and I have both cried during or after love making. She more than me. The time I did was when I moved our family of 5 from Minnesota to Hawaii 20 years ago and I made love to her the night before I left. (I had to leave a month ahead of her and the children to land a job and a place to live and all that before they moved over! I did it through lots of perseverance!

Good topic!

I have cried during sex. Sometimes after an orgasm, sometimes because of the emotional closeness I feel towards that person. One of the last times I had sex with my current partner, we were both tearing quite a bit throughout, because of the emotional aspect we were experiencing. When I orgasmed, my tears stopped and I felt very lightheaded, but when he came, he collapsed on top of me and began sobbing. It was a very intense night.

I've cried afterwards, but usually not during, and I have only cried afterwards once and that was when I lost my virginity. It's possible I will cry when I finally have it with my current partner since just being around him makes me a bit teary in the good way.

I don't think I've ever cried during sex. I've had partners cry during. To be honest, it kinda freaks me out. I start to panic. "Am I doing something wrong?"
I just found out that my current partner has cried when we've been together. I knew of one time when it hurt and I felt REALLY bad.

I understand tears of joy...but it still freaks me out.

I love crying during sex. It means I've reached a spot where I don't normally get and it's quite a release. I never cry from hurt, just from it being so awesome a relief / release.

I voted no-no. But, I have cried right after a few times.

I never cried during sex, but I did crack up hysterically at a man because he moaned like a girl. Seriously, I was drunk and it was HILARIOUS. Just imagine being on all fours ready to be ravaged, and all you hear is a mirror image, if not higher pitched, of your moans. I guess you could say that I cried because I had tears from laughing so hard. I had to leave the hotel. I couldn't stand to stay the rest of the night with him.

VieuxCarre: LOL! And awww, the poor guy.

Airen: I hope you get to be with them both soon as much as you want.

As for the poll, no and no. I cried after my first time, though it didn't hurt that much, because it was so intense emotionally. Also out of relief: I'd finally had sex, someone actually wanted me, and I'd wanted my then-boyfriend for years before we dated.

I can't say I have ever full on cried but when I have a good orgasm I do get some tears in the corners of my eyes. Unfortunately, my brain being as it is, I don't think of this as a beautiful moment and instead think about all the hormones and chemicals swishing around in my body. Romantic right?

Yes, I have cried once during and after sex. It was because I had so much feeling and everything was so intense and while I was mid-orgasm, I started to cry and it wouldn't stop. Afterwards, still crying, my partner held me and I kept saying over and over "That was so good! Why am I crying? I'm not sad, so why am I crying?" He laughed at me, in that consoling, sweet kind of laugh not the haha, you're so hilarious and making a fool out of yourself laugh, and held me until I stopped crying and after I stopped I kept telling him it was really good and asking if I weirded him out.

Hitting an intense form of subspace makes me cry. I become so over whelmed by how venerable I’m feeling I can't help it. I’m just grateful that my sexual partners seem to appreciate more then dislike it, so I don't feel absolutely crazy for shedding tears.

I have cried once during actual intercourse. It was an intensely emotional experience.
I have also cried during what we consider foreplay. I tend to be very emotionally reserved. I don't express myself emotionally very often. I can get very moody and depressed. We have discovered that we can use a really intense spanking/flogging to help me release my emotions.

All of my crying has been a good thing.

The way my girlfriend started crying was she started having doubts about my feelings for her. So we started having sex the next night and i had her look me in the eyes and assured her that I was hear to stay and she just started crying

My only experience with crying during sex was on the last night on my week-long vacation with my LDR sweetheart. We were smiling, happy, giggling, and the thought of knowing that it was the last for a very long time suddenly set in. We tried to keep cheerful and have a play anyway, but it was just too much. We ended up just holding each other until we were cried out.
Corny as it was and laugh if you want: it was a very hard moment in my life.

I cry during sex a lot, especially when it's intense. Usually it's from the exquisite pain but sometimes it's because I just cum so damn hard that I shed tears of joy. Either way, it's all good.

I've never cried or had anyone cry.. I guess I don't really see sex as something to cry over at all? I don't really get how you could cry. I guess that's just me.

I cried, and immediately, even when I wanted to keep going, he lost erection (he always does that whenever he thinks I'm in pain) and held me, asking me what was wrong.

I cried once, because I knew the relationship was over and it totally felt wrong! He didnt know I was crying though.

I never cried and even though I feel that that relationship being sexual is somewhat of a regret, I think it's a good thing that I didn't. Maybe that way, I never felt like we used sex the wrong way.