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How did you get introduced to BDSM?

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Contributor: rmiles124 rmiles124
Most of the times I've seen it, it's been pretty intimidating for me to try myself. But recently, I've been interested in buying restraints and whips and what not. Anyone have any suggestions on what to do as a beginner and how to introduce to my partner?
11/30/2012
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Contributor: Mwar Mwar
I always thought about bondage, and when I started talking to my partner about it randomly and off hand and in any, private place. A great place I tend to have such discussions in when we're driving in the car. I'll say something like "I was on Eden and I saw these (handcuffs, whips, whatever) on sale." and go from there.
11/30/2012
Contributor: bog bog
i started looking for bdsm porn online when i was 12. always had a fascination.
12/01/2012
Contributor: kdlt kdlt
Someone online had written that Britney Spears' "...Baby One More Time" song implied that she was a masochist. I googled the word. Then I stumbled onto collarme. I was probably eleven or twelve haha.
12/01/2012
Contributor: MacNCheese MacNCheese
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Originally posted by rmiles124
Most of the times I've seen it, it's been pretty intimidating for me to try myself. But recently, I've been interested in buying restraints and whips and what not. Anyone have any suggestions on what to do as a beginner and how to ... more
Not introduced. I was forced into it, lol.
12/01/2012
Contributor: novanilla novanilla
I don't even know, to be honest. I feel like it was probably wrestling with an ex in high school and realizing that I loved the power exchange and thrill of it. Now I can't stop!
12/01/2012
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
Read about it in a book and was intrigued enough to keep learning more
12/01/2012
Contributor: VeenaJae VeenaJae
I recall stumbling upon the BDSM page on Wikipedia while clicking on the "Random page" link. It seemed very interesting so I continued to research.
12/02/2012
Contributor: Eugler Eugler
I think it's easier to introduce BDSM to your partner when you are female.

I don't know what you want to do, but I think a good introduction might be just saying: "Tie me!" in a hot situation.
12/03/2012