How did you realize that you were kinky?

Contributor: TheirPet TheirPet
I remember performing self bondage when I was around 5th/6th grade.
06/28/2012
Contributor: Boyqueen Boyqueen
I can thank a lovely friend of mine who was exploring her own side and in doing so helped me come out of my shell and realize that's something I was interested in too.
07/03/2012
Contributor: dks210 dks210
I'm not really sure. I guess my boyfriend brought it out in me, but looking back I was a little kinky as a child...
07/03/2012
Contributor: pirata pirata
I didn't know what kinky was, so I noticed it when I was older and can find small indicators in my childhood.
07/03/2012
Contributor: SubmissiveFeminist SubmissiveFeminist
An event opened my eyes to the world of BDSM. I attended not knowing what it was and found myself to be enjoying it all too much for a vanilla girl.
07/04/2012
Contributor: Ashley B Ashley B
I've always been pretty kinky as far as I can remember.
07/04/2012
Contributor: Zandrock Zandrock
As a child I always had fantasies of a superhero being tied up and captured. This turned into a sexual nature when I hit puberty. I also remember a CSI episode where liquid latex and bondage were involved in a murder and it really turned me on. So my kinks have been there since childhood.
07/08/2012
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
Always felt kinky, but since being with my current man he has really brought out the kink in every part of me.
01/09/2013
Contributor: xcapricax xcapricax
It was just always the porn that appealed to me since I was like 11. I never really liked the normal stuff i fund it very boring.
01/09/2013
Contributor: fizzygato fizzygato
One day I wrote a goodbye letter to a friend, and another friend asked to read it.

In the goodbye letter I confessed a kink, and the other friend was like, "Omg, was that all this was about? You know there's a whole community of people out there who like this kind of stuff?????" and introduced me to everything, and the rest is history
01/10/2013
Contributor: smlove smlove
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I should have realized a long time ago that I was kinky, but I guess I just didn't have the word for it. I think it finally hit me when I went to my first fetish club. I was scared to go cause 'fetish' was a scary word for scary things that had nothing to do with me cause I didn't like pain. Then when I went to the club, I realized fetish isn't only about pain, in fact it's really just a small part of it.
but looking back, I probably was all along.
01/10/2013
Contributor: giftdgecko giftdgecko
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Originally posted by petname
The more blogs I read, the more different experiences I see with the world of kink, and this includes the way that people realize that they're kinky in the first place. What first made you realize that you were kinky? This question can apply to ... more
There isn't really one instance. We just kinda keep trying new things and liking them
01/10/2013
Contributor: souviet souviet
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Originally posted by petname
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beats me! been a long time!
01/12/2013
Contributor: leilani leilani
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Originally posted by petname
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it was something i realized while standing out side with my chick friend around 11 years old... man... it was scary and i didn't want to admit it til i had a partner into biting... so his kink and the realization when i was 11 put me on this track
01/12/2013
Contributor: Cowgirl-Cutie Cowgirl-Cutie
I've always been this way but didn't realize it until 3 years ago.
01/13/2013
Contributor: bronzelotus bronzelotus
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Originally posted by petname
The more blogs I read, the more different experiences I see with the world of kink, and this includes the way that people realize that they're kinky in the first place. What first made you realize that you were kinky? This question can apply to ... more
I can remember being excited by bondage as early as three years old (I loved problems and trying to escape after being tied up looked like an exciting challenge), which led to tie-up games when I was older and then experimentation with bondage play on my own and with a partner.
01/14/2013
Contributor: spiced spiced
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Originally posted by bronzelotus
I can remember being excited by bondage as early as three years old (I loved problems and trying to escape after being tied up looked like an exciting challenge), which led to tie-up games when I was older and then experimentation with bondage play ... more
I'm glad to know I'm not the only one! My pre-school friends and I used to tie each other up. Not sure where we got the idea, but probably some movie or TV show (Batman...James Bond??).

My first girlfriend and I tied each other up before we even had sex!
01/17/2013