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Contributor: Genderfree Genderfree
How much would you trust your partner to bind you in a BDSM position? I'm curious about your guys' doms. Make me jealous!

The ultimate challenge: count them up. The one with the most wins being the most obedient and trusting sub. Right? (But remember consent, of course)
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Cuffs and tethers
38
Rope
36
Suspension
20
Forced Orgasm
30
Sounding
9
Whipping
30
Spanking
36
Electroplay
20
Long-term S&M play (lasts days, weeks)
21
Stretching
16
Mark-making (but not bloodletting)
23
Bloodletting
12
Force feeding
5
Pet play
21
Sensory deprivation
28
Other: I forgot something I'm sure.
16
Total votes: 361 (43 voters)
Poll is closed
02/16/2013
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Contributor: K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by Genderfree
How much would you trust your partner to bind you in a BDSM position? I'm curious about your guys' doms. Make me jealous!

The ultimate challenge: count them up. The one with the most wins being the most obedient and trusting sub. ... more
I would trust him 100% with anything and definitely with suspension, electro play rope, cuffs, spanking, etc. But I did not vote for sounding or stretching or bloodletting or many of the others on the list simply because I don't want those things done to my body, but definitely not because I don't trust him. We've done a lot of these things, so trust is one thing we have where this is concerned.
02/16/2013
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by Genderfree
How much would you trust your partner to bind you in a BDSM position? I'm curious about your guys' doms. Make me jealous!

The ultimate challenge: count them up. The one with the most wins being the most obedient and trusting sub. ... more
My partners work very hard to be trust worthy. I have definite trust issues so they almost HAVE to work extra hard! I trust them with the things I don't mind doing to my body and to know what those things are...
02/17/2013
Contributor: tami tami
Quote:
Originally posted by Genderfree
How much would you trust your partner to bind you in a BDSM position? I'm curious about your guys' doms. Make me jealous!

The ultimate challenge: count them up. The one with the most wins being the most obedient and trusting sub. ... more
he can tie me up but that is about it for now
02/17/2013
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
She could do tying up, but that's because she lacks the confidence and experience (and is the sub anyhow)
02/17/2013
Contributor: Genderfree Genderfree
Quote:
Originally posted by K101
I would trust him 100% with anything and definitely with suspension, electro play rope, cuffs, spanking, etc. But I did not vote for sounding or stretching or bloodletting or many of the others on the list simply because I don't want those things ... more
Oh yeah I understand that, I kind of phrased it weird.
02/18/2013
Contributor: RedKyuubi RedKyuubi
All except the blood and feeding
02/18/2013
Contributor: Leather & Lace Leather & Lace
Definitely spanking, that's my fetish!
02/18/2013
Contributor: hall5885 hall5885
I would trust'em with anything but there are things I'm just not interested in or don't want done to my body.
02/18/2013
Contributor: A Good Girl A Good Girl
Most of that sounds like fun! Some I just wasn't interested in though. I'd trust my partner with just about anything
02/18/2013
Contributor: charletnarouh charletnarouh
My only real hang up is needles because of a long term phobia, anything else, with proper learning on Her part, I'd trust Her implicitly, with proper negotiation and risk awareness of course. There's a few things i'm just not interested in but not for lack of trust.
02/18/2013
Contributor: gwenevieve gwenevieve
Quote:
Originally posted by Genderfree
How much would you trust your partner to bind you in a BDSM position? I'm curious about your guys' doms. Make me jealous!

The ultimate challenge: count them up. The one with the most wins being the most obedient and trusting sub. ... more
I voted everything but sounding hahahahaha
just not sure about it
02/18/2013
Contributor: tunacan75 tunacan75
Everything except the pain related stuff
02/23/2013
Contributor: alexjewels alexjewels
If I'm being subbed by someone, I have to already trust them 100% with them taking control.
02/27/2013
Contributor: Beautiful-Disaster Beautiful-Disaster
Just a couple of those... Most of those sound pretty out there & maybe a little too kinky for me.
02/28/2013
Contributor: Charry Charry
I like to think I'd trust my partner with anything, but there's some things I'm just not into.
02/28/2013
Contributor: Collogue Collogue
Quote:
Originally posted by Genderfree
How much would you trust your partner to bind you in a BDSM position? I'm curious about your guys' doms. Make me jealous!

The ultimate challenge: count them up. The one with the most wins being the most obedient and trusting sub. ... more
I think it's more a question of what my partner has experience in, rather than how much I trust them
03/01/2013
Contributor: novanilla novanilla
I checked 13 options but I would trust my partner with any of them. I just wouldn't want to do some things, like sounding.
03/01/2013
Contributor: SMichelle SMichelle
Like some others, I would trust my current partner with everything on the list, but I wouldn't want everything on that list done to me.
03/01/2013
Contributor: His scarlett His scarlett
Quote:
Originally posted by Genderfree
How much would you trust your partner to bind you in a BDSM position? I'm curious about your guys' doms. Make me jealous!

The ultimate challenge: count them up. The one with the most wins being the most obedient and trusting sub. ... more
I completely trust my Master. There are things we don't do, such as bloodletting, because neither of us are interested in it, but if he was to decide that it was something he wanted to do I would have no hesitation in trusting him.

I have been in the lifestyle since becoming his, he is a good bit older than me and has been in the lifestyle for over thirty years, so I know that he is very competent, and that he is uber careful to understand what he is doing before he does it.
03/02/2013
Contributor: karenm karenm
I'd trust my partner with most of these things but I'm only into a few of them.
03/02/2013
Contributor: FunFantasys FunFantasys
I trust my partner completely
03/02/2013
Contributor: twelve13 twelve13
I trust my partner completely. However, one or two of the things lists I wouldn't do because they don't interest me, but that has nothing to do with trust.
04/03/2013