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Contributor: CD37 CD37
I am extremely interested in delving into the world of male chastity with a variation of the Gates of Hell. I was wondering if anyone would be able to share their or their partner's experiences with these or any other male chastity devices.

Also, I have been using cock rings for a couple years now and recently have moved to metal and was wondering if that should have any bearing on which type of device I should get.

Advice, stories or suggestions from anyone is more than welcome. Thanks.
05/17/2011
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Contributor: Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
My wife and I have used both the CB2000 and CB6000 in long term scenarios (1week+ at a time) The chastity itself was awesome for both of us because it increased the amount and quality of attention I paid to her in a servitude sense knowing that I had to "earn" my orgasms- even those that were through masturbation. I also enjoyed the humiliation/exhibition ism aspects of being in a long term device under lock and key. My wife would showcase the key on a chain around her neck and we would regularly talk about it with her girlfriends. On more than one occasion she's "shown me" or sent pictures to her girlfriends when discussing our arrangement.

As far as the CB series toys go, I don't have very fond opinions of the ones I had, though apparently the CB3000 is the best of the trio. The CB2000 was very clumpy and tended to pinch at awkward times while I was walking or riding transit. The style of cage is nice however because it allows for your penis to breathe. The CB6000 while much more secure and more compact was actually an inferior product. Like the CB2000 it tended to pinch at awkward moments. Unfortunately when I went to adjust it (the same way I would have with the 2000) the peg that held the cage together broke off.

We haven't bought any new chastity devices yet, though we've discussed getting one custom made and me getting an ampalang piercing to hold it in place. Having the plastic ring around my balls all the time was really uncomfortable- particularly for sleeping.
05/18/2011
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Note that there are some studies that seem to indicate a reduction in the rate of prostate cancer for men who ejaculate regularly.
05/18/2011
Contributor: stlouisxxx stlouisxxx
I have the Gates of Hell & honestly it doesn't do much for me expect reduces masturbation while wearing it. Since you can touch yourself & get hard in it I don't really consider it a chastity device. She has mentioned a few times that she would enjoy locking me up in a chastity device & then watch me suffer as I struggle as she attempts to get me erect. I wouldn't mind being locked in a device, but am wondering of the pain as I attempt to become erect.
05/29/2011
Contributor: Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
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Originally posted by stlouisxxx
I have the Gates of Hell & honestly it doesn't do much for me expect reduces masturbation while wearing it. Since you can touch yourself & get hard in it I don't really consider it a chastity device. She has mentioned a few times that ... more
I didn't really find it to be bad or painful unless you get something like the points of intrigue or a kali's teeth device which is intended to inflict pain during erection. Though my wife got a real kick out of watching me squirm as well.
05/29/2011
Contributor: JewelsAndB JewelsAndB
Male Chastity is a whole new, and fun, world... I know because it has been 3 weeks since I was last allowed to have an orgasm. Our interest in male chastity started about 5 years ago when I surprised J with a key to a CB-3000 that was locked onto me. We had only briefly discussed the topic of chastity in passing with the "that would be interesting" type of attention to it. After I gave her the key, we played off an on for about 6 months, only to find that it just wasn't working out...

I should qualify what "just wasn't working out" means here. The device itself worked pretty well (although it was never REALLY secure nor comfortable) but we were missing out on something. You see, J was simply indulging in something that I wanted instead of something that we mutually had interest in. As she puts it "If he wants me to keep him locked up, well I guess I can do that!" There was no teasing and denial, no real desire to keep me locked or unlocked.

Fast forward to about 2 months ago. After coming across a book on male chastity, the drive in me was rekindled. This time, however, I decided to get a LOT smarter about it. In researching more about the concept, I found a blog by someone named Sarah Jameson (The Male Chastity Blog). Her blog and e-book were an amazing find because it held something that no other male chastity site or book did... REALITY! After reading her e-book and having a long talk with J, she agreed to read the e-book and decided if SHE was interested in this. After reading the book, we both agreed that this would be fun to try.

I pulled out my CB-3000, but soon found that the acrylic material had become brittle and it just wasn't going to work out. We discussed the idea of buying another CB-xxxx product but decided, instead, to purchase something more serious. So we shopped around and made lists of likes and dislikes. In the end, we decided on something called the SteelHeart from Steelworxx. This is a hand crafted, made to measure, stainless steel trapped ball device, similar in concept to the CB-xxxx series, but much more refined.

Three weeks ago, while I was tied spread eagle on the bed, J announced that my next orgasm would be when we received the SteelHeart, which had not even been ordered yet! A week later I ordered it from Steelworxx and am now awaiting delivery (4-6 weeks).

So, what keeps me from having an orgasm? What we call the "Honor System", but what is also known as Willpower (and lots of it). But the incredible feeling of being perpetually horny give me so much more energy and desire to please J make it all worth while. Oh, and I have been told that the orgasm, when it finally is allowed, is MIND BLOWING! I will let you know in a couple weeks (I hope).

My recommendation to you, then, is to have a long discussion with your significant other about male chastity and then give it a try for a day, couple of days, week, couple of weeks, (you get the idea) using the "honor system" and then look at adding toys to supplement your willpower.
06/05/2011
Contributor: Dear Ruby Dear Ruby
I've got a boy that I need to keep secure for me, and I've considered the CB6000 for a while. Unfortunately though, there's none available on this site, and I've got points to use. Is there anything in EF's product list that would substitute, maybe just temporarily? I've been looking, but not finding so much.
11/13/2011