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Kinky Guilt?

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Contributor: Mwar Mwar
I think I'm a bit more Kinky than my guy. He's open and willing to try most things, but I feel that he does these things for me and really doesn't get anything out of it. I don't force him or anything, and he tries, but I feel bad sometimes. Like he's doing a chore. I don't know. When I ask him he says he's fine with it.

Do I just accept the "fine"? Am I right/wrong/crazy/etc to feel guilty?
04/11/2012
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Contributor: Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
I know exactly how you feel!
I want my husband to be all rough with me, but he doesn't like to. He's afraid of hurting me and I want to be thrown around.

If you don't think he enjoys it, maybe try talking to him. See how he really feels. Maybe he is fine with it.
04/15/2012
Contributor: Glinteye Glinteye
Im a sub, and my partner's a switch. I occasionally dom for them. It totally varies, but speaking only for myself, I in love. Doing something that isn't my favourite is not the worst thing. Be open. Talk to your partners. Dont worry until youve had the discussion, and believe what they say to you.
04/15/2012
Contributor: MistressDandelion MistressDandelion
I'm in the exact same situation. This, and on top of that I get frustrated, and then feel guilty about being frustrated.
04/17/2012
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
It's understandable, since usually one person has interests that the partner doesn't share. What I found worked nicely was talking it out, dealing with my partner's concerns over the activity, and switching between doing what I liked and what she liked.
04/18/2012