Last night I was watching a "fetish" porn with hubby. It had a woman in a cage, she looked very classy: wearing some very uncomfortable looking heals, gloves, jewelry, a waist cincher, and a collar. She enjoyed being spanked by (assuming) her master. She was caged to begin with, tied down at one point, made to sit on her knees or be on all fours.

Like I said, porn isn't really my thing, but imagining my husband and I acting this out really got me going. I'd love to reenact as much as this as possible with my husband. We don't have a cage, but we do have a crop, a cheap red collar, and black heels. I'm really interested in the bondage tape for means of "tying down," and not at all interested in being caged.

What I want to know is which bondage tape would you suggest? What cincher works best and LOOKS GOOD? And (if EF sells more then the one pair I've seen) which gloves would complete the look? less

The bondage tape is all the same pretty much, just different colors. (at least, the fetish fantasy stuff in pink, purple, black, and red...I haven't tried the sex and mischief version yet). As for the gloves, the wetlook and lame ones on here look pretty good but EF also has satin ones in red, black, and white if you'd prefer.
I haven't tried any of the gloves or waist cinchers yet myself but there's always the reviews you could look at to get an idea of the product.

here's a comparison of all the gloves on EF that don't come as part of some lingerie kit

a quick search for the term "waist cincher" less

Cupless is the word I think you are looking for.

Gloves

I haven't tried any of these, so I won't make any recommendations. less