If you practice a BDSM and use a safety word during play, what word do you typically use. Is it silly, serious, sexual?
What do you use for a Safe Word?
06/10/2012
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I go to a BDSM club where the words are as follows:
Originally posted by
Talena
If you practice a BDSM and use a safety word during play, what word do you typically use. Is it silly, serious, sexual?
Green: More.
Yellow: Getting close to my limits.
Red: STOP.
So my partner and I use 'RED' at home (though we don't really ever use green or yellow). My partner always reminds me during a scene that I can 'call red.' cause sometimes I get into subspace and forget how to work my mouth and need those reminders.
06/10/2012
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We tend to loose or forget the words...then we find he is forever asking "are you alright?"
Originally posted by
TheirPet
I go to a BDSM club where the words are as follows:
Green: More.
Yellow: Getting close to my limits.
Red: STOP.
So my partner and I use 'RED' at home (though we don't really ever use green or yellow). My partner ... more
Green: More.
Yellow: Getting close to my limits.
Red: STOP.
So my partner and I use 'RED' at home (though we don't really ever use green or yellow). My partner ... more
I go to a BDSM club where the words are as follows:
Green: More.
Yellow: Getting close to my limits.
Red: STOP.
So my partner and I use 'RED' at home (though we don't really ever use green or yellow). My partner always reminds me during a scene that I can 'call red.' cause sometimes I get into subspace and forget how to work my mouth and need those reminders. less
Green: More.
Yellow: Getting close to my limits.
Red: STOP.
So my partner and I use 'RED' at home (though we don't really ever use green or yellow). My partner always reminds me during a scene that I can 'call red.' cause sometimes I get into subspace and forget how to work my mouth and need those reminders. less
06/11/2012
What if your role playing and the sub is tied up (hands and feet), blindfolded and gagged, What would your safe word (action) be then?
06/11/2012
I like random words like, "lilac". It's not sexual so it can't be confused for the wrong action.
As for your second question, I've never gone that far with anyone. I imagine you'd have to completely trust them to know your limits and have your best interest in mind.
As for your second question, I've never gone that far with anyone. I imagine you'd have to completely trust them to know your limits and have your best interest in mind.
06/11/2012
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Thanks for your thoughts. I guess my mind is going into hyper-drive lately. So many thoughts bout so many different things.
Originally posted by
Claire-Bear
I like random words like, "lilac". It's not sexual so it can't be confused for the wrong action.
As for your second question, I've never gone that far with anyone. I imagine you'd have to completely trust them to ... more
As for your second question, I've never gone that far with anyone. I imagine you'd have to completely trust them to ... more
I like random words like, "lilac". It's not sexual so it can't be confused for the wrong action.
As for your second question, I've never gone that far with anyone. I imagine you'd have to completely trust them to know your limits and have your best interest in mind. less
As for your second question, I've never gone that far with anyone. I imagine you'd have to completely trust them to know your limits and have your best interest in mind. less
06/11/2012
Lol. I had someone who wanted me to choose one. I'm HORRIBLE at making decisions, so I said first thing that popped into my head.
Oompa Loompa.
I kept it and would use it again in any other situation
Oompa Loompa.
I kept it and would use it again in any other situation
06/11/2012
I use "yellow" for "hey, watch out, getting close to my limits", but I don't use "red" for "stop", since it's a word I sometimes find myself saying in a scene. The first thing that came into my head was "Rammstein", so I kept it!
I'm trying to develop a safe signal, but haven't quite figured out one that works for me.
I'm trying to develop a safe signal, but haven't quite figured out one that works for me.
06/11/2012
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My daughter was an Oompa Loompa in her class play in 2nd grade..lol..sorry that is the first comment that entered my head.
Originally posted by
remember.me
Lol. I had someone who wanted me to choose one. I'm HORRIBLE at making decisions, so I said first thing that popped into my head.
Oompa Loompa.
I kept it and would use it again in any other situation
Oompa Loompa.
I kept it and would use it again in any other situation
If you use Oompa Loompa does the partner then bust out laughing....I am sure I would.
06/11/2012
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It is very tricky to choose something that isn't sexual but at the same time won't completely break the mood.
Originally posted by
palindromic
I use "yellow" for "hey, watch out, getting close to my limits", but I don't use "red" for "stop", since it's a word I sometimes find myself saying in a scene. The first thing that came into my head was
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I use "yellow" for "hey, watch out, getting close to my limits", but I don't use "red" for "stop", since it's a word I sometimes find myself saying in a scene. The first thing that came into my head was "Rammstein", so I kept it!
I'm trying to develop a safe signal, but haven't quite figured out one that works for me. less
I'm trying to develop a safe signal, but haven't quite figured out one that works for me. less
06/11/2012
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Yes, it gets a laugh every time. But there is no doubt that its a word that doesn't belong!
Originally posted by
Talena
My daughter was an Oompa Loompa in her class play in 2nd grade..lol..sorry that is the first comment that entered my head.
If you use Oompa Loompa does the partner then bust out laughing....I am sure I would.
If you use Oompa Loompa does the partner then bust out laughing....I am sure I would.
06/13/2012
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I may not have a word! I may have passed out by then!
Originally posted by
Talena
If you practice a BDSM and use a safety word during play, what word do you typically use. Is it silly, serious, sexual?
06/13/2012
We use words like "Cupcake" and "popsicle". Oddly,it makes us hungry too. XD
06/13/2012
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Sure doesn't!
Originally posted by
remember.me
Yes, it gets a laugh every time. But there is no doubt that its a word that doesn't belong!
06/13/2012
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LOL...forgot to use the word lol
Originally posted by
PassionateLover2
I may not have a word! I may have passed out by then!
06/13/2012
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If I used popsicle, Partner would probably respond with..."and where would you like it put" lol
Originally posted by
Mx.Nekora
We use words like "Cupcake" and "popsicle". Oddly,it makes us hungry too. XD
06/13/2012
we've had a hard time coming up with a safety word. usually we can only think of silly words like banana or something that just kills the mood, so we don't use a word. we just say "that seriously hurt" or something along that idea with the word seriously
06/16/2012
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Pineapples!
Originally posted by
Talena
If you practice a BDSM and use a safety word during play, what word do you typically use. Is it silly, serious, sexual?
06/16/2012
"Apple" was one I've used. "Grapefruit" is one me and a play partner decided on recently.
06/16/2012
I'm seeing a lot of fruit lol
06/16/2012
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My partners and I use the same system, it works very well for us.
Originally posted by
TheirPet
I go to a BDSM club where the words are as follows:
Green: More.
Yellow: Getting close to my limits.
Red: STOP.
So my partner and I use 'RED' at home (though we don't really ever use green or yellow). My partner ... more
Green: More.
Yellow: Getting close to my limits.
Red: STOP.
So my partner and I use 'RED' at home (though we don't really ever use green or yellow). My partner ... more
I go to a BDSM club where the words are as follows:
Green: More.
Yellow: Getting close to my limits.
Red: STOP.
So my partner and I use 'RED' at home (though we don't really ever use green or yellow). My partner always reminds me during a scene that I can 'call red.' cause sometimes I get into subspace and forget how to work my mouth and need those reminders. less
Green: More.
Yellow: Getting close to my limits.
Red: STOP.
So my partner and I use 'RED' at home (though we don't really ever use green or yellow). My partner always reminds me during a scene that I can 'call red.' cause sometimes I get into subspace and forget how to work my mouth and need those reminders. less
06/25/2012
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