I want to start by saying My Man and I do not use Corporeal Punishment with our children. I don't think that children learn anything by being hit, especially by their parents and I think that there are better ways to teach children the difference between Right and Wrong.
That being said, both My Man and I were "spanked" as children for punishment.
Who knows if it carried over, but we like a little spanking (mostly he spanks me, I only hit him without realizing it when I Come really hard. Then I apologize. It's part of our dynamic.)
My worry is, the kids might on occasion hear it, and think something "wrong" is going on. I don't want them to think their father is actually "hurting" me, as that would send the wrong message, both about sex and about our relationship. As a result, it doesn't happen as often as either of us would like, and I feel like My Man is holding back, for fear of the noise. It doesn't take much to make a loud smacking noise, even with only minor, and exciting sensation. I don't want to scare the kids, and we always wait until they little ones are in bed. We also have a White Noise Machine and a humidifier on, to dull any and all sexual noises, but sometimes we still are heard. (The other night, there was a knock on the door, long after we though the Little One was sleeping and she was saying, "Hey, what's all the yelling about?" I almost wanted to fall into a crack in the ground. I kind of fibbed and said her Daddy was making me laugh (OK, he was making me Come, which is damn close!) but I don't want the kids to get the wrong idea about sex.
Has anyone dealt with this issue? Either dealing with regular sex noises or having to hold back on Impact Play? What did you do? How did it work?
That being said, both My Man and I were "spanked" as children for punishment.
Who knows if it carried over, but we like a little spanking (mostly he spanks me, I only hit him without realizing it when I Come really hard. Then I apologize. It's part of our dynamic.)
My worry is, the kids might on occasion hear it, and think something "wrong" is going on. I don't want them to think their father is actually "hurting" me, as that would send the wrong message, both about sex and about our relationship. As a result, it doesn't happen as often as either of us would like, and I feel like My Man is holding back, for fear of the noise. It doesn't take much to make a loud smacking noise, even with only minor, and exciting sensation. I don't want to scare the kids, and we always wait until they little ones are in bed. We also have a White Noise Machine and a humidifier on, to dull any and all sexual noises, but sometimes we still are heard. (The other night, there was a knock on the door, long after we though the Little One was sleeping and she was saying, "Hey, what's all the yelling about?" I almost wanted to fall into a crack in the ground. I kind of fibbed and said her Daddy was making me laugh (OK, he was making me Come, which is damn close!) but I don't want the kids to get the wrong idea about sex.
Has anyone dealt with this issue? Either dealing with regular sex noises or having to hold back on Impact Play? What did you do? How did it work?
