subs/slaves/masochists /bottoms: Do you get sexually turned on when pain is inflicted on you?

Contributor: k3 k3
It depends, but usually. Sometimes though, I'd rather not...
08/18/2012
Contributor: SmutGeek SmutGeek
Like some people on here,

Its not so much the pain but the scene in general. I'm actually more of a sadist than a masochist but i enjoy submitting to my Dom's flogger because I love the scene of him tying me up or down, beating me and caressing me with leather then rubbing me down with his hands and usually ending the session having really hot sex.
08/19/2012
Contributor: Supervixen Supervixen
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Originally posted by CandidKinkster
I'm curious about how many bottoms find themselves sexually aroused when pain is inflicted on them. Personally, I don't find pain play sexually arousing, but I think I'm in the minority.
I find that pain and pleasure are two sides of the same coin. There's pain in a non-sexual context that is unpleasant, and I certainly don't like that. Then there is pain that transforms into pleasure, like the sting of a belt or a firm hand during a spanking. I find that the sting turns into a nice tingly sensation, and I can't help but get aroused by the fact that he's in control of the situation, he knows how much I want, and when enough is enough. The ultimate control, of course, comes from the bottom. If it's too much, it's too much, and in a healthy relationship like this, your lover should stop when you need him/her to stop. Otherwise, yes, it's abusive. This is why we have safe words, folks!

And I have yet to use my safe word, so that should tell you how tough I am and how hard I like it.
08/20/2012
Contributor: RoseIsSoPretty RoseIsSoPretty
Quote:
Originally posted by CandidKinkster
I'm curious about how many bottoms find themselves sexually aroused when pain is inflicted on them. Personally, I don't find pain play sexually arousing, but I think I'm in the minority.
I absolutely love it!
08/23/2012
Contributor: inkky inkky
I Like Pain Mixed With Pleasure.
08/31/2012
Contributor: Billie Bones Billie Bones
I don't like to get wailed on every time I have sex but when I do I want it pretty hard. I've been known to taunt my doms a bit if they go too light.
08/31/2012
Contributor: SavingMyself SavingMyself
Pain turns me on, a lot. Not all pain, but when my husband hurts me with the intent of turning me on, it always works.
09/01/2012
Contributor: himynameissteph himynameissteph
Always!
09/17/2012
Contributor: AlleyKitten AlleyKitten
Yeah, i get horny from pain, haha.
09/19/2012
Contributor: Glinteye Glinteye
It does, but its more about the fact that its being done by my master
09/19/2012
Contributor: MidnightStorm MidnightStorm
Yes and no... I like sharp pain, actually. My boyfriend and I had a talk about it because we're both switch-preference subs and we ran into some difficulty with handcuffs: namely that I find them painful, awkward, and uncomfortable to wear behind your back when laying down. His argument, on the other hand, was that the "point" of bondage was that you forgot about that pain. So while that aching annoyance might not be an issue for him, it completely is for me! I would rather be flogged, smacked, or pinched... But I have no interest in dull, persistent pain.
09/20/2012
Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
Quote:
Originally posted by CandidKinkster
I'm curious about how many bottoms find themselves sexually aroused when pain is inflicted on them. Personally, I don't find pain play sexually arousing, but I think I'm in the minority.
Love it! Not enough men want to inflict pain unfortunately
09/20/2012
Contributor: ginainohio ginainohio
never
09/25/2012
Contributor: Living Doll Living Doll
I can honestly say that pain does nothing for me sexually.
10/15/2012
Contributor: SoloJoe SoloJoe
no not me
10/21/2012
Contributor: wes wes
Rare to never....but my parnter love pain inficked to her back,neck,ass and her breasts.
12/26/2012
Contributor: tunacan75 tunacan75
She likes spanking, not sure if its for the pain though
12/31/2012
Contributor: spiced spiced
My wife enjoys inflicting pain on me, sometimes more than I really want and THAT turns me on, even if the pain itself is too much for me to stay aroused at that moment. Just thinking about her giving me more pain than I'd thought I could handle--and me taking it, like a good little bitch--makes me hard as a rock!
12/31/2012
Contributor: Cowgirl-Cutie Cowgirl-Cutie
Almost always
01/01/2013
Contributor: chicagobearsfan chicagobearsfan
I agree with many in that it's the control my partner is showing/ has over me that is the true turn on. However, some pain does turn me on, in part because of the sensation, and I think in part because I feel safe that he won't go beyond my limits.
01/02/2013
Contributor: spiced spiced
Quote:
Originally posted by chicagobearsfan
I agree with many in that it's the control my partner is showing/ has over me that is the true turn on. However, some pain does turn me on, in part because of the sensation, and I think in part because I feel safe that he won't go beyond my limits.
One of the many, many things I love about my wife is that she WILL go past my limits, but only far enough to expand them, not enough to traumatize me. There's not much I enjoy more than having to fight with myself to keep from saying the safe word!
01/04/2013
Contributor: xcapricax xcapricax
90% of the time
01/04/2013
Contributor: Thumper Logic Thumper Logic
Depends on the context and intensity, but I usually get turned on by it
01/04/2013
Contributor: fizzygato fizzygato
I don't get turned on by feeling pain, but I do require quite a bit of "pain"/ pressure/ etc to feel pleasure.. if that makes any sense

Like you have to bite me hard for me to feel it/ thus like it.

Which isn't to say that I like the pain of being bitten; I just didn't feel it unless you did it hard.

I love the marks left after, and think those are so much cooler/ possibly hotter than the acts that made them
01/06/2013