We did a whole lot of talking for a couple years before we got to be together in person. And by that time, we had talked about a lot of kinky ideas, so we were never really vanilla. lol
Did you or your partner start off Vanilla?
01/26/2013
He was always kinky, he just didn't know it until he met me...
01/26/2013
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normal to me is a few steps beyond where i consider vanilla to be. i don't think my wife needed a boost either.
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Cowgirl-Cutie
Did one of you start off as completely vanilla?
01/29/2013
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I don't think either of us has ever really been vanilla.
Originally posted by
Cowgirl-Cutie
Did one of you start off as completely vanilla?
02/08/2013
I mean, we didn't start doing kinky things right away, but you know.
02/10/2013
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Yes, he did.
Originally posted by
Cowgirl-Cutie
Did one of you start off as completely vanilla?
02/10/2013
My partner started out vanilla, but I've slowly gotten her more into it
02/10/2013
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Yes, we did. He was the first man I had ever had sex with (I have been with other men since, it's a long story) but I was a 16 year old virgin when I met him.
Originally posted by
Cowgirl-Cutie
Did one of you start off as completely vanilla?
I always had Kink thoughts, but it didn't occur to me to put them into real life sex until later.
02/11/2013
Yes
02/11/2013
still are vanilla...with kinky tendencies. lol.
02/11/2013
A little bit.
02/11/2013
I was the kinky one with experience in BDSM, he was completely vanilla when we met. I have slowly introduced him to a few things but for the most part much is still unexplored on his side.
02/11/2013
I guess I kinda did
02/11/2013
He was a virgin and a little afraid of trying new kinky things
02/11/2013
He did, but I had always had a spanking fetish that I slowly introduced him to.
02/11/2013
We started off somewhat "vanilla", but he did stick his finger in my ass the first night...I knew then our sex life was going to be fun!!
02/13/2013
We did, but as we got more comfortable with each other we began to talk about expanding our bedroom activities and found that we actually had a lot in common and enjoyed trying new things together. There was a lot of patience and understanding involved too
02/13/2013
Yes
02/13/2013
I know I sure did, we've never discussed his experiences and now realizing he wants to try new things too makes me wonder....
02/13/2013
I've never had sex with anyone who didn't have kinks.
02/15/2013
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We met through a BDSM forum. So, from the very first moment it was all about BDSM with us.
Originally posted by
Cowgirl-Cutie
Did one of you start off as completely vanilla?
03/02/2013
He is vanilla, and I started off sort of vanilla but I knew I wanted to try a couple things.
03/02/2013
In our relationship, I've always been the kinky one, but tried to deny it for a long while. Hubby seems to have always been vanilla.
03/02/2013
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