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What do you consider BDSM?

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Contributor: Princessfi Princessfi
Curious to know, as it seems that there are so many different definitions and views
07/27/2012
Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
BDSM =

Bondage & Disciple (BD)
Dominance & Submission (DS)
Sadism & Masochism (SM)

It's three terms in one. Anything under those terms is considered BDSM.
07/28/2012
Contributor: Zandrock Zandrock
I agree with Kira
07/28/2012
Contributor: Nacht Stern Nacht Stern
My definition of BDSM is: sexual activities outside the social 'norm'.
07/29/2012
Contributor: Gingertrap Gingertrap
Kira pretty much nailed it on the head, the only thing I would add is that it is safe, sane, and consensual.

Some may call it cliche but when you cross that border it becomes a fine line between BDSM and abuse.
07/29/2012
Contributor: Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
Quote:
Originally posted by - Kira -
BDSM =

Bondage & Disciple (BD)
Dominance & Submission (DS)
Sadism & Masochism (SM)

It's three terms in one. Anything under those terms is considered BDSM.
This.
I also agree with what Gingertrap said. If it's not safe, sane, and consensual, it's not BDSM.
07/29/2012