I have recently begun exploring the lifestyle and my need to submit. As soon as I thought this was something I really wanted to try I spoke candidly with my wife about it and she agreed to try. We did a couple scenes, and she really is just not that into it. Being the wonderful wife she is, she has offered to still include this into our lives on occasion because she knows it is something I want. My problem is, I don't think I could ask that of her knowing that she really doesn't like it. What would you all do in my situation?
What to do with a partner not in the lifestyle?
06/05/2015
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Maybe try to see if there is something she likes. If you like to submit but shes not really into the dom thing try switching. You're making her step out of her comfort zone you might need to step out of yours first. See how she handles being tied up, or spanked or whatever it is that you would like to do. Some people don't like to take control during play or even just in sex. So try introducing it to her by you taking the reigns and see what she thinks of it from there.
06/17/2015
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