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When did you first enter the BDSM scene?

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Contributor: nori nori
Especially when you first realized. I was interested at 16; but i didn't start looking/read/experienc ing it until i was 19. how about you guys?
07/24/2012
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Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
It was pretty gradual.
07/24/2012
Contributor: Loriandhubby Loriandhubby
over the past 7 months and i'm 40 something
07/24/2012
Contributor: Vanille Vanille
I didn't start formally engage in it til like a year ago, but I've always had an interest / educated myself since I was 18.
07/24/2012
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
I formally joined the scene at 19, but knew about it since I was about 16 or so.
07/25/2012
Contributor: padmeamidala padmeamidala
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Originally posted by nori
Especially when you first realized. I was interested at 16; but i didn't start looking/read/experienc ing it until i was 19. how about you guys?
June 1997. I found bdsm online and that changed everything.
07/25/2012
Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
I don't know that I'd consider myself "in the scene" in the sense that I don't go to events or anything like that. I've known I was kinky since I was, like, 8. Don't judge. I had my first semi-BDSM related relationship at 14, long before I had acronyms to attach to what we were doing. I'm just anti-social, so going out and being part of the local scene is something I keep saying I should do and never do it.
07/25/2012
Contributor: VanillaFreeSex VanillaFreeSex
gradual. some tying up at 15/16 with my first. but didn't really start exploring beyond that and rough sex until my 20's.
07/26/2012