Which one are you?

Contributor: Pnutbuttatoast Pnutbuttatoast
My partner is some what of a rope whore and loves to be tied up whenever we want to have that kind of fun, and I love to tie them up so I am the dominate. Although being the sub would be interesting to try at least once.
05/13/2011
Contributor: kelaaa33wish kelaaa33wish
Never got into the dom/sub thing, I just go with the flow.
05/13/2011
Contributor: Choolz Choolz
We tend to switch it up but I prefer being the sub. I'm the bossy one in day to day life and make all the decisions so maybe that is why I love being dominated in the bedroom. It's so hot to me when I'm thrown on the bed or against the wall or grabbed and bent over and such.
05/13/2011
Contributor: abntroll58 abntroll58
At work I have to be very dominat so when I am at home and "having fun with the wife" I want to be submissive and let her take charge.
05/13/2011
Contributor: CAKES CAKES
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Originally posted by removedacnt
Are you consistently dominant, submissive, or do you switch?

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totally submissive
05/14/2011
Contributor: babypinecone babypinecone
in day to day life I am more dom, but in the bed room, I am always sub! It is so nice to be the helpless one once in awhile
05/14/2011
Contributor: NarcissisticLust NarcissisticLust
I'm usually submissive, but I love turning the tables sometimes in the middle of sex. It becomes a battle at that point with a much more interesting power dynamic.
05/16/2011
Contributor: padmeamidala padmeamidala
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Originally posted by removedacnt
Are you consistently dominant, submissive, or do you switch?

I'm making the voting private, but feel free to add to the comment section if you're comfortable with that.
I am mostly submissive although I do enjoy Topping women when I get the chance to. It can be fun to switch roles but am only interested in Topping women. Not men.
05/16/2011
Contributor: Officer Oddy Officer Oddy
I've never quite had the courage to be dominant. ^^;;;
05/16/2011
Contributor: CuteDee CuteDee
Im more sub. I like my bf to take control and do naughty things to me. We sometimes try to switch it up but its hard to take me serious when Im in charge... hee hee
05/16/2011
Contributor: Dawn (Lilac Distraction) Dawn (Lilac Distraction)
I'm switch but I prefer being submissive. My boyfriend prefers to be a submissive as well. That always brings out my dom side.
05/16/2011
Contributor: cobiffle cobiffle
I like to be in control most of the time
05/16/2011
Contributor: null null
I'm very submissive with guys, but the idea of being with a dominant woman kinda squicks me out...
05/16/2011
Contributor: ♥ Amanda ♥ ♥ Amanda ♥
I am a total switch! I become submissive when my man wants to take control of me and then I switch up to the domi when he craves pegging.
05/17/2011
Contributor: That Man from Mars That Man from Mars
Dominant.
06/07/2011
Contributor: deletedacct deletedacct
I'm more comfortable being submissive most of the time but i would be interested in switching & seeing if i have a dominant side.
06/07/2011
Contributor: Kdlips Kdlips
both
06/07/2011
Contributor: big b big b
dominant if she lets me
06/08/2011
Contributor: newfoundlust newfoundlust
Quote:
Originally posted by removedacnt
Are you consistently dominant, submissive, or do you switch?

I'm making the voting private, but feel free to add to the comment section if you're comfortable with that.
We are both switches. I tend to be more dominant, and she tends to be more submissive, but we both enjoy the other role as well. Depends on our mood.
06/08/2011
Contributor: K101 K101
We don't get deep into it, but we do light play. Nothing serious where anyone is ever rough or hurt each other. Usually we switch it up. He has a harder time telling me to do something due to issues from my past so we keep it light.
06/09/2011
Contributor: Errant Venture Errant Venture
I'm a Dom. I signed up for the yearly subscription service and everything.
06/15/2011
Contributor: SoBlue SoBlue
I prefer to be submissive but im willing to switch it up
06/15/2011
Contributor: ellieprobable ellieprobable
I spent a long time saying I was a switch but I top so rarely now that it doesn't even seem pertinent.
06/17/2011
Contributor: Mr. & Mrs. Peg Mr. & Mrs. Peg
Total switch. It is all based on the mood and what we want to do. We have also both topped from the bottom quite a bit.
06/18/2011
Contributor: Sinfully Sinfully
I am definitely more submissive
06/18/2011
Contributor: Screen Door Screen Door
Quote:
Originally posted by removedacnt
Are you consistently dominant, submissive, or do you switch?

I'm making the voting private, but feel free to add to the comment section if you're comfortable with that.
My boyfriend is very submissive so I picked switch since I play the role of the dominant for a bit and then we usually switch halfway in or so.
06/21/2011
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
I ID as a Domme, but am currently an owned slave. My kink life is complicated.
06/22/2011
Contributor: Spoken Pandora Spoken Pandora
I am submissive. I like to say that I was born this way and didn't have a choice in the matter. It is not a second thought.Though I have been told that just because I am submissive I should not submit to everyone. Through my "travels" I am learning exactly what this means.
06/25/2011
Contributor: Rena Rena
I've been a sub since my very first fantasies. My husband isn't a natural Dom, but he's learning pretty quick and enjoying it, and I am too! I'd love to find someone/a couple in the community that can mentor us though, we're making it up as we go along.
06/25/2011
Contributor: ss143 ss143
We are both switch but truly im a sub switch and hes a dom switch
06/25/2011