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There isn't really a "special" harness to use with this. Basically, you just have to find any harness that you like the look of that has an O-ring of two inches. Most harnesses won't support the two-inch diameter of this dildo, so just make sure you check on that before you purchase.

This is the harness I recommend:
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It would fit a 2 inch diameter dildo, but it'd definitely be tight. But it's amazingly comfortable, feels sensual, and holds great.

Here's some random ones that work. (I haven't used these.)
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I know the main item description says it can be used "for harness use in partner a suggestion of the descriptive reviewer's , but it's not marketed as a harness compatible dildo, only as a hands-free suction cup one or with your hands. Not to say there may not be a way to fit it in a harness, I'm just saying, it's bulky and may not be very comfortable to wear in a harness. But hey, I guess it's worth a shot! Good luck. Hope you find one that works. If you do, let us know.

For that dildo to work with an O-ring harness, it seems like you have two options:

1. Insert the dildo with the base and balls remaining on one side so that the ring is positioned like a cock ring on the shaft only. I imagine that the ring would basically have to just fit over the shaft. I'm not sure how secure this configuration would be, or how comfortable for that matter.

2. Find an O ring that is large enough to squeeze the suction cup base through but small enough to still hold the dildo securely. I'm unfamiliar with how bendable pleasureskin is, so this may not work if it is very flexible.

If you are in particular looking for a dildo with balls that is harness compatible, perhaps the Vac-u-lock dildos are what you are looking for?

Good luck with finding a combination that works for you.

I've got a vac-u-lock harness and this one:

Sedeaux Vibrating Harness

I had bought the vac-u-lock originally because I thought it would be easier to handle, but it isn't it. The second 2-strap harness is much more comfortable and stable to wear. The vibrating part isn't really necessary however. The thing I like best about it, is instead of buckles, there are clips. It makes it super easy to put on and adjust, and also to take off. I plean on buying a second one, because whereas the vac-u-lock does let you swap toys more easily, the o-ring on the 2-strap is a little bit much to fiddle with. I'd rather just have all the toys set up and ready to go and I can hop in an out and be locked and loaded in seconds.

The biggest hitch for you I think is the suction cup - that's going to add "volume" i guess is the best word when trying to attach to an o-ring harness. I was able to use the vac-u-lock dildo I bought with my o-ring harness, but that's because it had balls.

Also contrary to what the poster above said - you don't have to worry about stretching the o-ring over the balls - take the o-ring out of the harness first, roll it over the "stem" end, and then attach it to the harness once it's at the base.

me too!