So I'm looking at buying my first dildo. (I'm a female, and so is my partner, so I'm not entirely sure if this belongs in BDSM, but I digress.) Anyway, I'm between the "New-Comers strap-on kit" by Sportsheet and the "Bend Over Beginner strap-on kit" by Tantus. I guess my question is, is the Tantus equipment worth twice the price? Thanks for your help