To the "pegger", what kind of enjoyment do you get?

To the "pegger", what kind of enjoyment do you get?

cmm cmm
I'm referring specifically to the person that wears the strap-on.
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oldkinky oldkinky
Quote:
Originally posted by cmm
I'm referring specifically to the person that wears the strap-on.
When my wife is pegging me we use a harness that has small vibrators that stimulate her clitoris while she fucks me. The dildos that we use all are silicone with a vibrator which stimulates her also. She always cums.
09/01/2013
MrWill MrWill
Quote:
Originally posted by cmm
I'm referring specifically to the person that wears the strap-on.
Some use set-ups so they get stimulation from the harness/dildo/or a vibe inside the harness.

Some get off on getting their partner off.

Some get off on dominating a partner (but pegging isn't always about domination)


It's really going to vary between people
09/01/2013
Wicked Wahine Wicked Wahine
I imagine it's the same enjoyment a person using a dildo or other toy on another gets, doesn't seem any different to me. You like giving the other partner pleasure and the sites and sounds are also stimulating. I think this question would also apply to a woman penetrating another using a strap-on and I think it just boils down to enjoying pleasing your partner.
09/02/2013
postmaster postmaster
Quote:
Originally posted by oldkinky
When my wife is pegging me we use a harness that has small vibrators that stimulate her clitoris while she fucks me. The dildos that we use all are silicone with a vibrator which stimulates her also. She always cums.
My wife finds it difficult to get clitoral stimulation while pegging but loves the bulb end of the feeldoe inside her. She usually ends up pulling out the hitachi to finish her off while she is on top
09/02/2013
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
My wife doesn't orgasm (yet) but the Mimi vibe that she slips behind the O2 Revolution in our RodeoH panty harness is very effective at getting her turned on.

My wife never believed that she could orgasm from anal sex - since I've proven her wrong on that count - she has orgasms during anal sex almost every time. My next goal is to get her to orgasm while pegging me.
09/09/2013
SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
I get more emotional enjoyment than physical. I'm typically the submissive type, but when I wear a strap on I feel in power, and love making him take my big cock...lol!
09/09/2013
G&L G&L
She has told me that she enjoys watching me get pleasure.
09/11/2013
NekoMama NekoMama
Quote:
Originally posted by cmm
I'm referring specifically to the person that wears the strap-on.
We have a feeldoe, which vibes, but we also have a harness where you can put a vibe inside which helps. There have been times where I've been so turned on I don't need anything, which is always awesome!!
09/25/2013
cmm cmm
Quote:
Originally posted by NekoMama
We have a feeldoe, which vibes, but we also have a harness where you can put a vibe inside which helps. There have been times where I've been so turned on I don't need anything, which is always awesome!!
Glad you have a harness for that thing. I wouldn't use the feeldoe without it.
09/25/2013
Minamie Minamie
I enjoy seeing my husband having so much pleasure, being in control is also really pleasurable for me, and since we have the Share, that's also really fun for me too.
10/08/2013
Miss L Miss L
Quote:
Originally posted by cmm
I'm referring specifically to the person that wears the strap-on.
The power dynamic.
10/28/2013
sexilexi29 sexilexi29
I usually don't use a vibe or any such thing when I'm strapped up so it's much more of a mental pleasure than a physical one. I love the feeling of control and power that comes with having a cock. I strap up for both men and women but whoever I'm with, there is something exhilarating about being the "giver" rather than the "taker". Also, who doesn't enjoy seeing their partner get off? I enjoy seeing my partner in the throws of ecstasy and knowing that I am the source of the pleasure.
12/03/2013
h3artsav3r h3artsav3r
I really enjoy the pleasure my partner gets when I dominate him. The power of having the cock is also a big part of it. My partner and I are both switches, so I also get a rush from thinking, "this might be happening to me tomorrow." I feel like each play session brings my partner and I closer. Power, Intimacy, mental pleasure, and of course the physical pleasure.
12/05/2013
Slutty Girl Problems Slutty Girl Problems
Quote:
Originally posted by cmm
I'm referring specifically to the person that wears the strap-on.
I love the power exchange, and being in control. It defies the norm!
12/05/2013
RomanticGoth RomanticGoth
Its more about pleasing him. I enjoy the change of perspective, too!
04/07/2014
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
My wife doesn't orgasm (yet) but the Mimi vibe that she slips behind the O2 Revolution in our RodeoH panty harness is very effective at getting her turned on.

My wife never believed that she could orgasm from anal sex - since I've ...
Up-date - figured it out!

The wife had learned to orgasm while pegging - I'm starting a thread to share the specifics...
Mar 12, 1:50 am
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
We both agree with all of the fore mentioned.
Mar 14, 1:33 am
RonLee RonLee
When I had been on a med that reduced my ability to maintain an erection past orgasm, I used a Spareparts Hardware Deuce harness for men along with Wifey's favorite toy to keep going. My enjoyment is seeing my Wife's orgasm.
Mar 14, 12:23 pm
Lena Eden Lena Eden
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
Up-date - figured it out!

The wife had learned to orgasm while pegging - I'm starting a thread to share the specifics...
It must be very interesting!
Mar 15, 12:33 pm
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by Lena Eden
It must be very interesting!
You can read all of the details on my post - that no one commented on! link
Mar 15, 11:48 pm
Lena Eden Lena Eden
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
You can read all of the details on my post - that no one commented on! link
Wow, that may become a very useful thread, where everyone can share his own tips for pegging time!

I'd also love to share our story, but I have no one, as we haven't tried pegging yet
Mar 16, 10:37 am
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by Lena Eden
Wow, that may become a very useful thread, where everyone can share his own tips for pegging time!

I'd also love to share our story, but I have no one, as we haven't tried pegging yet
I thought it was pretty useful - but apparently no one else did. There hasn't been a single comment or reply posted. I take from that - that there isn't any reason to pursue the subject anymore.
Mar 16, 2:19 pm
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