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Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
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I have not used a spreader bar but I think they look pretty cool! They can cost a lot too. I found a great resource that tells you step by step instructions on how to make your own!

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Contributor: Sir Sir
Yes, I know of this. There's also another method to doing it. They're very easy to make, honestly.
04/26/2010
Contributor: J's Alley J's Alley
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Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
I have not used a spreader bar but I think they look pretty cool! They can cost a lot too. I found a great resource that tells you step by step instructions on how to make your own!

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J and I have made a lot of stuff ourselves, you just need to take a good look at it and go for it. I bet the people at Home Depot wonder what the hell we have going on in our home
04/26/2010
Contributor: Passionate Pastor Passionate Pastor
Wow, that looks really good
04/27/2010
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
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Originally posted by Sir
Yes, I know of this. There's also another method to doing it. They're very easy to make, honestly.
Do you have your own method?
04/27/2010
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
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Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
Do you have your own method?
A finished dowel along with two screw eye bolts makes a great spreader bar. Not gorgeous, but way easy.
04/28/2010
Contributor: Juliettia Juliettia
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Originally posted by Kayla
A finished dowel along with two screw eye bolts makes a great spreader bar. Not gorgeous, but way easy.
I haven't made it, but I had the same thought.
04/28/2010
Contributor: Sir Sir
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Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
Do you have your own method?
Same as Miss Kay said. Finish it with something, though, maybe paint and a gloss coat to make it nice, or the method that I'm attempting now is electric tape wrapped around it. I like this one though - I've tried to find metal rods in Home Depot and have not been able to, however.
04/28/2010
Contributor: Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray
M's got two homemade spreader bars and the materials cost us a grand total of $4.

Two wooden dowels and eye screws. Works like a charm.
05/16/2010
Contributor: Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray
Oh look! Apparently others agree!

I gotta start reading responses before responding myself. =D
05/16/2010
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
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Originally posted by Rayne Millaray
Oh look! Apparently others agree!

I gotta start reading responses before responding myself. =D
lol no worries
05/16/2010
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
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Originally posted by Rayne Millaray
M's got two homemade spreader bars and the materials cost us a grand total of $4.

Two wooden dowels and eye screws. Works like a charm.
Awesome! Pictures?
05/16/2010
Contributor: 00 00
Ok, since I found this post and I recently made us a new spreader bar, I will mention it here. I used a thick wooden dowel inserted into a pool noodle (you know, the floaty tubes that people use in pools), then cut to the length I wanted and screwed in eye screws to the ends. Total cost for two (one long for ankles and one shorter for wrists) $2.80 And they work fabulously and are padded by the noodle part. So much fun to make and use. Total time to make-about 20 minutes.
06/08/2010
Contributor: PassionQT PassionQT
I'll never forget the first time an old friend/Dom of mine had me in a spreader bar. The experience was so erotic. Unfortunately, hubby isn't in to bdsm much whereas I am. It's always a good idea to make your own if you can. I can't believe how much some places charge for them.
06/09/2010
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
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Originally posted by 00
Ok, since I found this post and I recently made us a new spreader bar, I will mention it here. I used a thick wooden dowel inserted into a pool noodle (you know, the floaty tubes that people use in pools), then cut to the length I wanted and screwed ... more
Excellent! Well done! I'm glad it works
06/15/2010
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
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Originally posted by PassionQT
I'll never forget the first time an old friend/Dom of mine had me in a spreader bar. The experience was so erotic. Unfortunately, hubby isn't in to bdsm much whereas I am. It's always a good idea to make your own if you can. I can't ... more
Yea, they are ridiculously over priced.
06/15/2010
Contributor: Boxers Over Briefs Boxers Over Briefs
Over a year ago I tried to make the spreader bar described in OP's post, but found that the anchors would not hold inside the bar even under lighter tension. Instead I ended up using some steel tubing, with a threaded metal rod down the middle, some washers, coupling nuts and eye bolts to finish the whole thing off. It's fairly heavy and very industrial and I love it.
06/15/2010
Contributor: Gary Gary
You can buy a roll velcro at AC Moore that you could use in some DIY bandage projects. That stuff is VERY strong.
06/15/2010
Contributor: Blinker Blinker
Thank you for this! I was talking to my boyfriend about this and we're doing this as a project before he leaves for China. Weehee!
07/21/2010
Contributor: kck kck
Thanks for sharing, Lauren. I might have to use my arts and crafts skills
07/21/2010
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
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Originally posted by Blinker
Thank you for this! I was talking to my boyfriend about this and we're doing this as a project before he leaves for China. Weehee!
Come back and share!
07/25/2010
Contributor: Alicia Alicia
I was just thinking last night how I wish we had a spreader bar but didn't want to spend the money on one... I might have to try this!
07/25/2010
Contributor: spnkegrl spnkegrl
My bf followed this tute to make two of these. They turned out great, have held up very well, and were very inexpensive
07/27/2010
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
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Originally posted by spnkegrl
My bf followed this tute to make two of these. They turned out great, have held up very well, and were very inexpensive
AWESOME! I am glad I posted it
07/28/2010
Contributor: Red Riding Hood Red Riding Hood
All of the suggestions are wonderful! I especially love the idea of personalizing it and making it fit my own style. Hooray for DIY!
07/30/2010
Contributor: myplasticheart myplasticheart
I have a home made spreader bar in the closet right now. the right length of pvc pipe found from my garage and some nice leather cuffs i already had attached to the longest of old recycled purse straps with claw hooks on them. AWESOME what you can when you look around you ;]
good luck everyone haha
08/12/2010
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
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Originally posted by myplasticheart
I have a home made spreader bar in the closet right now. the right length of pvc pipe found from my garage and some nice leather cuffs i already had attached to the longest of old recycled purse straps with claw hooks on them. AWESOME what you can ... more
So inventive
08/18/2010
Contributor: Not here Not here
Oh I am SO trying this. I love you Lauren!

I've been dying to get a spreader bar, but now I think my man and I are just gonna take a trip to Home Depot and get crafty! I know he can't argue that!

I love DIY

Thanks to everyone else for the awesome suggestions too!
09/07/2010
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
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Originally posted by Not here
Oh I am SO trying this. I love you Lauren!

I've been dying to get a spreader bar, but now I think my man and I are just gonna take a trip to Home Depot and get crafty! I know he can't argue that!

I love DIY

Thanks to ... more
-blushes-

If you do this, let me know about how much it cost!
09/20/2010
Contributor: That Guy That Guy
Crafts AND bondage? LaUr3n, you just made my day.
01/06/2011