I've mentioned recently, link, that I was considering a ball gag for my fiance. He was a bit apprehensive at the suggestion. However since I have to keep covering his mouth he's starting to come around to the idea.

I told him that a bit seems less intimidating and might help him. He also has a thumb sucking habit (I know it's odd) so I'm thinking he might not mind the ball gag that looks like a pacifier.

I was wondering which you would go with?

I'm guessing someone will say I should just ask him but frankly I think all of this toy stuff is overwhelming to him until I get it and then he gets really into it.

P.S. Sorry for the way the answers are showing up, this is my first poll and obviously I've failed, lol. less