Poly. Is it for you?

Contributor: Sangsara Sangsara
i used to be insanely jealous but i grew out of it and i think i could try anything depending on the people or person
07/29/2012
Contributor: Equae Equae
I certainly don't see anything wrong with any type of poly, but I'm too jealous to do it with my partner.
07/30/2012
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
I'm so interested, but I know that monogomy is the only way for us.
07/30/2012
Contributor: kitty1949 kitty1949
Poly is not for me.
07/30/2012
Contributor: marshmallow marshmallow
monogamy is cool.
07/31/2012
Contributor: RomanticGoth RomanticGoth
Monogomy, but having occasional fun on the side.
07/31/2012
Contributor: wwwww wwwww
I'm a monogamous person. I have a personality that would complicate an open relationship, swinging, or poly.
08/01/2012
Contributor: sweetiejo sweetiejo
I like being in monogomous relationships, I'm selfish by nature and like to focus on one person and have them focus solely on me, in a relationship sence. I don't find anything wrong with other options though, everyone has the right to be happy and if it helps them to be happy they need to do such.
08/01/2012
Contributor: Tangles Tangles
I am currently embarking on my first poly relationship. It will be a triad, and it would be considered polyfidelity. It's difficult adjusting to a world made for couples, but it has been working out so far!
08/01/2012
Contributor: Badass Badass
I am really into the idea of monogamy. I don't think I could open myself up to more than one person at a time. I'd wear too thin..
08/01/2012
Contributor: SoloJoe SoloJoe
if i really care about someone i cant bear the thought of someone ells being there
08/12/2012
Contributor: Mwar Mwar
I don't know. I'm happy with my guy, but I would be willing to explore beyond monogamy. However, he seems to be completely monogamous, so I'm not sure.
08/12/2012
Contributor: Danneh Danneh
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Originally posted by Carrie Ann
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I used to consider myself monogamous. However.... I don't know. I have PTSD- and it actually makes me feel 100% safer to be in a poly relationship now. Because I know he can get what he needs- that I can't give- elsewhere. and he accepts that sometimes he isn't what I need- and lets me get that elsewhere.
08/12/2012
Contributor: Experiment Experiment
I'm a monogamous person by default. I'm newer to the site, and you guys are really introducing me to all sorts of things I'd never thought about or considered before.
08/14/2012
Contributor: SmutGeek SmutGeek
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Originally posted by Backseat Boohoo
My personal preference was for the little-known "polyfidelity," the idea of a group of people who are all with each other, but only with each other. There were two guys and two girls (including myself) in our personal circle, and we had ... more
I feel the same way.

My group was another lesser known term of Trinogamy
I like the dynamic but i feel a "quad" would be nice too and no one would feel left out.
08/19/2012
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
Call me old fashioned, I'm into monogamy.
08/20/2012
Contributor: sextoygeek sextoygeek
Quote:
Originally posted by Carrie Ann
Relating to: [https://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sexual-health/love-triangle-61092/ | Blind Faith: When Polyamory Doesn't Work Out

Polyamory, Swinging, Open Marriages, Triads, Families, Free Love, Primaries and Secondaries...
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Well it really depends on the relationship and the situation. Right now I've been going with a sort of single poly or casual dating. Depending on the partner I could see my self in almost any type of relationship, though right now I lean towards something more along the lines of polyamory or at least an open relationship.
08/22/2012
Contributor: TheirPet TheirPet
I'm mostly monogamous. If my partner or I wanted to try something though we'd let each other know and be okay with it.
08/22/2012
Contributor: LadyDarknezz LadyDarknezz
I am pretty positive that I'm completely into monogamy, but a Dom that I'm interested in is poly...So I have a lot to think about these days.
08/26/2012
Contributor: Happenstance Happenstance
I am very happily polyamorous and currently in something resembling and open triad. The hardest part of my relationship with my two partners right now is the distance. I really want to be where they are, if not in the same living space, then at least in the same city! I miss them a lot.

The relationship is open, so everyone can have romantic and sexual relationships outside the current arrangement. And everyone is free to play at kink parties and such.

Since I'm demisexual (only sexually attracted to people with whom I have developed a significant emotional bond) and introverted, I'm a lot slower to form relationships than, say, my girlfriend who has three other girlfriends outside the triad. It can feel unbalanced at times, but as long as we are open to talking about these things, we can be confident everything will work itself out. Every minor "problem" is an opportunity for communication, growth, and more intimate understanding of each other.

I get to meet two of her girlfriends soon and I'm actually really excited about it!
08/29/2012
Contributor: sXeVegan90 sXeVegan90
I chose monogamy, because I will admit that I get jealous, and I can be possessive at times. It's not that I'm always like that, it's just I couldn't and wouldn't want to see someone else with my partner, and my partner is the same with me. We both believe that we're enough for one another, and it doesn't get boring for us. To each their own though.
08/29/2012